Absolutely everyone understands that the ability to communicate andfinding a common language with others makes life much easier. And man as a social being needs a society of his own kind. But being able to get along with others does not mean to love them at all. And each of us by the will of fate has to maintain a relationship with people whom we mildly say dislike. In this regard, a more sincere and honest to yourself and others is a misanthrope. This concept gained particular popularity thanks to Moliere's comedy "Misanthrope", in which the main character - Alzest - ridiculed and despised human sins and weaknesses.
Misanthrope. What are we dealing with?
Misanthrope is a person who despises otherspeople, avoid contact with them. This term is translated from the Greek as a "man-hater". And although, indeed, many accuse misanthropes of total hatred of humanity, in reality everything is not so terrible. Let's see who he is - a monster in human form or a hermit?
The philosopher-loner
Misanthrope is a multi-faceted concept.And the attitude of people to misanthropy is just as ambiguous. Someone thinks that this individual is only dreaming about how to rid the planet of an infection called "homo sapiens", while others are sure that misanthropy is a thing in itself, that is, the misanthrope lives by hatred for all mankind for the sake of hatred towards all of humanity. But such characteristics are more suitable for sociophobes and sociopaths. Misanthrope, on the other hand, has contempt for people, deep contempt. He does not accept their morals and weaknesses, he feels superior to others. As a rule, a misanthrope does not like humanity as a whole, without transferring this feeling to specific people. As for communication, this person maintains very warm relations with close people and friends, which he has little. In its narrow circle can only get elected.
Misanthrope - is it contagious?
The question arises:Misanthropes are born or those make them circumstances? Most likely, people come to such a philosophy of life with time. Misanthropes are disenchanted idealists with a thin and vulnerable soul. But a sense of some hopelessness makes them impassable cynics.
How to determine who you are - a misanthrope or a philanthropist?
If people are annoying you, this does not mean at all,that you are a misanthrope to the core. Perhaps you have a common depression. Below you are offered a test, with which you can determine which category of people you belong to.
Test: "Misanthrope or philanthropist - who is more in you?"
1. On TV, a broadcast about starving African children is shown. And at the bottom of the TV screen there is an information line with the number of the bank account to which you can transfer money, you:
A) Switch to another channel.
B) Immediately go to the bank for the transfer.
C) Start calling all relatives and friends, calling them to help those in need too.
D) Prefer to give a couple of rubles to drug dealers in need.
2. What books do you most like to read?
A) Philosophical treatises of agnostics and stoics.
B) Masterpieces of Darya Dontsova.
B) Do not read at all.
D) Fairy tales, fantasy, adventure.
3. What are the people around you?
A) They surround me?
B) If you look closely - people like people, there are even very nice ones.
B) Dust, despicable bugs.
D) I just adore them.
4. How do you feel about the death penalty?
A) For some people, it must be applied.
B) To resolve this issue there is a state.
C) Against.
D) Positive attitude.
5. Public festivities are:
A) Another reason to drink.
B) Very good entertainment for the working people.
C) The reason for people to get drunk and spend all their money.
D) A bunch of idlers, hungry for free bread and circuses.
6. The term “humanist” - what is its interpretation you choose?
A) Book worm.
B) A gray-haired professor from a neighboring house.
C) Student philologist.
D) The concept that came from ancient Rome.
7. What are horror films for you?
A) Definitely - rubbish, I do not look like that.
B) Video manual for maniacs.
C) I love to watch with friends, especially if you have a beer.
D) I look instead of "Good night, kids."
8. How often do you serve the needy on the street?
A) Always, as soon as I see it.
B) As soon as I see, I run across to the other side of the street.
C) And what are these? Never noticed.
D) Let them go work, and then become impudent.
9. What is the most pleasant for you?
A) Animals, they are such paws.
B) Representatives of the opposite sex.
C) New clothes for a loved one.
D) Crochet.
10. What is aggression in your understanding?
A) Unconscious behavior of a person when solving problems.
B) That's the way people are.
C) Without aggression there is no progress.
D) Human stupidity.
Key
1. A-2 B-1 C-1 D- 4
2. A-3 B-2 C-4 D-1
3. A-2 B-2 C-3 D-0
4. A-3 B-1 C-0 D-4
5. A-1 B-0 C-2 D-4
6. A-2 B-2 C-2 D-3
7. A-2 B-3 C-0 D-1
8. A-0 B-1 C-4 D-2
9. A-1 B-0 C-2 D-3
10. A-1 B-0 C-2 D-0
From 0 to 10
You see the whole world in pink.Everything is beautiful around, and people, like angels, all in white clothes, and so cute that even tears from tenderness come to their eyes. And there is absolutely no reason not to love these charming creatures. You are a real philanthropist.
10 to 20
You should not choose who you should include:to misanthropes or philanthropists. You adequately assess reality, understanding that there are bad and good people. In your world, a bit of everything, both white and black.
More than 20
Congratulations - you're a misanthrope, annoying you inpeople are everything: how they breathe, walk, buy groceries in the store, have fun during the holidays. You would love to collect them all on the same spacecraft and sent to conquer distant galaxies, with a smile watching through a telescope as they are carried further and further away.