Practically everyone has heard bad things about himself.Sometimes we find out about this completely by chance, because offensive names often speak behind their backs, but there are those for whom it’s easy to say everything in their faces and at the same time make a sweet smile.
First, let's try to understand what motivates people to insult others ...
6 reasons for filth
1. Bad manners or tactlessness.Such people consider this disadvantage their dignity. Without realizing it, they can blurt out insulting names even in the presence of elderly people. You should not take it to heart, they are unlikely to understand the tactlessness of their words.
2. Envy. And it can manifest itself even to the smallest detail. For example, your good mood, let alone material wealth and personal life is better off.
3. Vampire people. Unfortunately, there are people who derive pleasure and energy from what insulting denunciations say in a foreign address.
4. Pursuit of teachings.Such a desire arises from the "sofa psychologists" who consider themselves mentors. They give advice, but do not forget to humiliate or insult the feelings of the interlocutor.
5. Good intentions. Sometimes we hear the most offensive names from close people. We understand that they love us, but in a fit of anger, not everyone can control their words.
6. Impunity.This reason for filth is more common on the Internet, where people feel safe and do not skimp on insults. But if in virtual life they can be put on the Black List, then in real life everything is much more complicated.
Where roots
It's no secret that the most cruel people -these are children, and the first offensive names on the names we get from school. Sometimes the fantasy of classmates can go so far beyond what is permitted that a nickname or nickname becomes a stigma, after which people even forget the real name of the person. The fact is that children never think about the consequences of teasing. For them, the most important thing is to create fun and noise by humiliating other people.
The main reason for obzyvatelstvo servesappearance. If a person has problem skin, he will be called acne, vision problems - a blind hen, four-eyes, a desire to learn - a nerd. The most offensive names for boys concern the honor of his mother. If the word “mom” appears in the insult, the child will tear and toss everything around him.
Tease everyone, but why some ceaseto call, and on others continue to scoff? The fact is that any normal person with special trembling refers to his name, and any offensive names about the most holy cause a storm of emotions. This is what the teasers need. To prevent this from happening to your child, you need to explain to him that ignoring is the best weapon.
Wounding words
The theme of calling is so reverent that evenyears later leaves an unpleasant aftertaste in my soul. And for good reason at first it was said about children. If adults can at least sometimes control their emotions, then children do not.
How often do teens fight?The key phrase is hidden in the question itself. Every day, young men from about 12 to 20 years old are trying to prove their authority by fighting. What begins the fight? Of course, the first thing that sounds is a shameful name-calling for a guy who will humiliate his feelings.
Teasers or nicknames are like masks thatslip people to put them on. More often, they are forced to accept such an "award" in order to get into some influential company, or to protect their honor.
There are a lot of insulting words for guys, but the most offensive is when the word "gay" is used to it. If in the countries of Europe a good attitude towards such people, then the Russian people have a negative attitude.
What annoys guys
Men are less emotional than girls.For example, for a girl, the phrase “You are a fool” sounds like the most terrible insult, followed by screams, tears, scandals and hysteria. With men, the situation is much easier. He will not even pay attention to this. But this does not mean that not a single phrase that has flown down from the lips of women is capable of upsetting or annoying him.
The following topics can be grounds for insults:
- uncleanliness (skunk);
- discontent about his "friend" (small dignity);
- insults about his hobbies.
How to deal with insults
Как было сказано ранее, лучший способ мести - это ignoring. It is necessary from childhood to explain to the child that if they call him off, you should not respond and pay attention to it. It is interesting to teasers to insult those who resent and respond. The child should know that all the nicknames, drove and other words are not related to him. The board, though simple, is 100% valid. But in order for your child to use it properly, cultivate a sense of self-worth in him.
Words sting hurt like a bee
These photos will not leave anyone indifferent.The purpose of the photo shoot is to get people to think about how people feel who has been insulted. If you think that offensive words are not able to leave wounds on the body, remember, they are the sickest and remain in the soul.
The idea of the project came up with the photographer Richard Johnson. Each photo session participant chose a word from the list, which in his opinion is considered an unfair insult.
Now imagine what would happen if the insult left a mark on the body?
Moron - "idiot", "idiot".
Useless - "worthless" or "useless", stupid - "fool", "stupid."
I want to believe that after viewing photos on the topic "Choice of weapons" people will think before they start using verbal violence against others.
