It is believed that adolescence, oftencalled the transition period - the most difficult. No wonder. After all, the rapid metamorphosis occurs literally in every area of life no longer a child, but not yet an adult. Puberty begins, the first thoughts of a sexual nature arise, hormonal storms rage in the body. But it is not only the body that is changing - the emotional background becomes extremely unstable, anxiety, anxiety, excessive susceptibility and vulnerability appear. Yes, and attempts to form their own, distinct from the parent, opinion, as a rule, are quite painful.
All these changes can not affect thebehavior and perception of the world and themselves as a teenager. Hence the characteristic periods of low mood, and sometimes - depression, suicidal thoughts, rejection of their new appearance, fear of being rejected by their peers, lack of interest in studying and the desire to assert themselves not always in acceptable ways. These components of the tipping point can be expressed a little more or a little less, but in any case, they are necessarily present. It turns out that youth is the most beautiful time of life, its dawn is actually a dark and burdened period of internal instability? Of course, it is not. There is also a bright side of the medal - positive moments, such as the freshness and brilliance of impressions and emotions, the “non-consistency” of perception, the joyful anticipation of happiness.
How to deal with side effectsteenage ripening? Of course, the ideal option is to visit a competent psychologist who, after conducting the necessary tests for teenagers, will help the young man or young lady to figure out herself and the world around her, to adjust the process of communication with peers and loved ones of older age. But, as practice shows, there are extremely few boys and girls who are ready to go on their own to a specialist. For most adolescents, a visit to a psychologist is a recognition of their own abnormality, which means inferiority. The situation is no better with those young people who were brought to the relevant consultation by their parents. In such cases, immediately there is a spirit of contradiction and rejection of any, even the most innocent, attempts to communicate.
При этом каждый подросток нуждается в self-identification. Know and accept yourself with all the advantages and disadvantages - this is the solution to many internal problems that arise in the transition period. For this purpose, there are professional and amateur, humorous tests for teenagers, which can be passed independently.
Традиционно, первым в руки новоиспеченных юношей and girls gets the test that determines the type of temperament. It would seem that everything is great - sanguine, melancholic, phlegmatic and choleric people are installed. But there is a strange prejudice among adolescents: only a sanguine person is a “good” type of temperament, yet the rest often do not suit the representatives of the younger generation, they do not correspond to the ideal image built in their minds. Therefore, in such a situation, the task of parents is to unobtrusively explain that each temperament is good in its own way.
Quite interesting tests for teensdefinition of character. For example, the questionnaire Shmisheka aimed at the definition of accentuations, that is, the main directions and aptitudes, character. Here, too, there are small pitfalls. The fact is that an accentuated personality theoretically stands on the verge of the norm and pathology. But this does not mean at all that a person who has a certain accentuation is mentally ill or will soon get sick. Just pay attention to some features of character, and, considering them, to improve the quality of your life. This is the explanation that teens should hear from their parents or older friends.
If you are tired of answering questions, you can goThe following are the original tests for teens: Luscher color test and Sondi's portrait test. It does not hurt, also, to determine the level of IQ and professional abilities (professional orientation).
Today, the Internet existsmany sites that feature tests for teen girls. Basically, they are more like a game or children's fortune telling. The young lady, answering a number of rather strange questions, gets an interpretation in which she is compared with the hero of a favorite movie or cartoon. But only the multi-heroes do not have and cannot have an individuality, a formed character and subtle psychological features - they can be “bad” or “good”. Therefore, the value of such tests is rather doubtful, and perhaps it makes sense to talk about their adverse effect on an unstable teen psyche. It is better to draw the child’s attention to the test that determines the socionic type. Approximately the same situation in the sections "Tests for adolescent boys."
There are innocuous polls that determine the levelindependence, attention, luck, self-esteem, abilities to creative and logical thinking, and others. Answering the questions of such tests, adolescents become much more self-confident, which, in turn, helps to successfully overcome difficult moments of growing up.
