Along with unstable or missing erectionPremature ejaculation is exactly in the top three of the most common and most terrible for men sexual dysfunction. Indeed, there is little joy when you are just in tune with love games, you experience sweet excitement, anticipation of delightful moments, and your “boyfriend” is not at all friendly and has done his job and left the game. Disappointment for both partners, a spoiled mood, dissatisfaction ... And this is only in a single case, and when too fast ejaculation becomes the norm (which it cannot be by definition) - this is fraught with the emergence of complexes, rupture of relationships, complete collapse of intimate life. So the treatment of premature ejaculation is not a whim, but a necessity.
However, you should immediately make a reservation:far from all men who consider themselves to be fast-fired shooters, correction is in fact necessary. The duration of sexual intercourse is a very individual thing, and its assessment suffers from great subjectivity. If lovemaking lasts a few minutes, it’s too early to talk about premature ejaculation and to resort to any kind of intervention. Sexual intercourse with all the preludes, lasting about ten minutes, is more than normal, because the average duration of “pure” intercourse does not exceed on average even three minutes. Only ejaculation can be considered premature, which occurs almost immediately after the penis is inserted into the vagina, and even “on the approaches”. Only in this case, the problem really exists and can be considered a disease, only in this case, you should think about how to get rid of premature ejaculation. If a man “keeps on” a minute or more, he can improve his sexual technique, but in no case can he be “driven”, otherwise this may be the first step towards frustration.
So, do not need to approach yourself too critical,no need to think about your inferiority. Let you be slightly cheered up by the fact that about 35 percent of male representatives at one age or another have premature ejaculation. The reasons for this may be different. Perhaps the most common is the fear of being sexually untenable, the fear that sexual intercourse can end in failure. The member as if hurries to “calm” his master and quickly achieves the desired effect, which turns out to be premature. Fear of failure increases - the likelihood of early ejaculation increases. Too much desire to “have fun” can also produce premature ejaculation - for example, excessive masturbation, the only purpose of which is to get satisfaction as soon as possible. The member as if “gets used” quickly to provide the owner with the desired and subsequently, during any actions of a sexual nature, immediately ejaculates. Of course, there are pathologies - the consequences of head injuries, hormonal disorders, pathologies of the lower spinal cord, but their percentage is insignificant.
The treatment of premature ejaculation is carried out in several directions - one specialist can offer (and this is the best option), others can be selected by the man.
A good effect gives the use of various meanslocal exposure - lubricants and gels containing anesthetics. Applying them directly to the head of the penis reduces its sensitivity, which allows to prolong sexual intercourse. There are condoms with similar lubricants. The method is good because it has no contraindications. But if pills are used instead of ointments for the same purpose of lowering sensitivity, then you need to consult a doctor.
Behavioral therapy - treatment of prematureejaculation, in which a man experiencing a problem, actively and patiently helps partner. By working together, by trial and error, using various techniques such as “stop-start”, you can achieve good results and return the member’s “behavioral instincts” to normal.
Rid the man of the root causes of frustration,lurking in various fears, psychotherapy helps well, it is a pity that most consider it uncomfortable and shameful. In fact, in sexual disorders, as in any disease, there is nothing shameful and reprehensible; From this point of view, the treatment of premature ejaculation is no different, for example, from the treatment of intestinal infections or other afflictions.
