Many believe even convinced that the friendship betweenwomen are not and can not be. Especially men are sure of it. Well, in vain. Friends can not only gossip about their friends, talk about clothes and other nonsense. They are interested in the joys and sorrows of each other and sincerely share them. But sometimes the female sex is too talkative and says something that would be worth to keep silent. What questions can you ask a friend, and what is better not to ask?
To begin with, what is better not to ask:
- about intimate relationships, in particular, about sex, sexual problems, former and present partners, lovers, husbands;
- about earnings, savings, passwords, etc., especially in those cases, if you work in one place, it involuntarily suggests thoughts of evil intent;
- about the problems that have come to you from third parties, you do not need to “step on a sore spot,” especially if the person himself does not want to voice it.
What questions you can ask a friend:
- you can ask about hobbies, suddenly it turns out that you have something in common, it will help to get close;
- to discuss her outfit, slim figure, and generally a good appearance, she is likely to be pleased with your attention, but, most importantly, do not overdo it;
- talk about children, because there is always something to tell about them, it is possible about pets, in the absence of children;
- ask to tell about how you spent your vacation, there is practically no need to strain about what interesting questions you can ask, because rest is always pleasant memories;
- about cooking, discussing several delicious recipes.
Close friends
There are neutral topics, you can talk about themanyone, even with a friend. In such a situation, one moment is important. It is advisable to distinguish which questions should be discussed with a good friend, and which questions you can ask a person who is not too close to you. But with a real friend you can talk about everything without exception. People close in spirit should not have secrets from each other. Virtually every girl or woman has a best friend.
What questions you can ask a friend who you think is best:
- she and only she will tell you the truth about your outfit, even if it is not very pleasant, because from the outside you know better, it’s difficult to judge such things alone;
- You can ask her how to act in a particular situation concerning your personal life, as she is aware of the events and can give objective advice;
- it is possible to consult with her about the choice of a gift to relatives, she will definitely tell you something sensible, because she knows many personally;
- only she will tell you the truth about your cooking, and will not be so easy to praise everything, will point out shortcomings and help rectify the situation by providing useful recipes
- Only a close friend will help you to pass the time for the benefit of yourself, advising what books you should really read, what music to listen to.
If a friend is really close, then she is likenative person. She can be trusted. And, most likely, you will not have to think about what questions you can ask your friend, because the loved ones feel each other.