Do I even need to talk about love?Not everyone is sure about this. If only because this feeling is uncompromising: either it exists or it is absent. To those who themselves experienced love ups and downs, puppy indescribable delight and terrible upheavals, no words are needed. The same, who saw love only in the series, is unlikely to understand the deeper meaning of any apt expression. And yet, humanity continues persistently and selflessly to search for beautiful phrases about love. It is about love, and not about love - so heartfelt.
Well, let's look and we.
Love and folk art
Oddly enough, but the most accurate phrases aboutlove invented by the people. What is the famous: “Love is evil, you will love the goat!” If we reject the simplicity and roughness inherent in this expression, then there will be a meaning with which any psychologist will agree. We choose not with our mind, but with our heart, and we love our chosen one not for any special merits, but just like that. Love, to be frank, is not the fairest feeling. They love everyone: evil and ugly, sick and stupid. They also neglect all sorts of things: clever and beautiful women, people with a rare soul and a heart of gold. So is it any wonder that the objects of our passionate feelings often do not live up to expectations, and their actions are quite comparable with the mentioned animal? But we desperately love and such: love is really evil!
A. S. Pushkin about love
Как известно, великий русский поэт был большим an expert in the field of love relationships. He wrote the most famous phrases about love. For example, the famous "Love, all ages are submissive." However, not everyone knows that the generally accepted meaning of these lines is clearly at odds with the original. In the novel “Eugene Onegin”, from where this phrase is “pulled out”, only the young, young feeling is glorified by the author. But the operatic version is much closer to all of us, when the words mentioned above are followed: “Her impulses are beneficial to a young man in his prime, who barely saw the light, and a fighter with a gray head that was scorched by fate”. The reason why the original has not taken root is not difficult to understand. The heart of a person at any age is attuned to feelings; therefore, the words that feed this love fire, rather than trying to extinguish it, become more intimate and understandable.
By the way, the poet has other phrases about love,which are also quoted inaccurately. Here is an example: “The less we love a woman, the more we like her” (in the original: “the more we like her”). And this inaccuracy caught on not by chance. Pushkin with his “lighter” was probably talking not so much about love as flirting, for which ease, serenity, and the absence of suffering are natural. But the option “the more” seems to have been invented by a man burned by an undivided feeling. He passionately and passionately loved, but did not find reciprocity, and his strong feelings turned out to be a burden for someone. Hence the seemingly correct conclusion: it is impossible to love so much, fewer feelings - or rather results! But is such a statement true? Who knows!
About love and wisdom
Many different things are written about feelings.controversial, and yet in this heap of thoughts come across truly clever phrases about love. Here is one of these: “Never marry a woman with whom you can live. Marry the one without which you can not live. "
It sounds, at first glance, surprising.But after the second, third, tenth reading, the meaning of these words becomes obvious. Contrary to all the talk about the only half, meant for a person from above, people on their way of life usually meet several partners with whom they are comfortable, and you can try to build a union. But love is not when it’s good with a person. Love - when it is impossible without it!
Great about love
Many famous people are not only famous for theirdeeds and achievements. They write wonderful phrases about life and love, which are perceived with interest, and sometimes with delight by the public. Here are just a little bit of such expressions. “Love is like luck: she does not like to be chased after her” (T. Gotye). Or: “Love is not an outward manifestation, it is always inside us” (L. Hey), “The tragedy of love is indifference” (S. Maugham).
It is possible to list such phrases for a long time, and one can easily agree not with each of them. But one thing is certain: all these people understood well what they were talking about. They knew about the deep feeling firsthand!
Many of those who own the most accurateexpressions cast their thought in a coarse, mocking form. "The most stupid woman is able to cope with the most intelligent man, but only the smartest - with a fool." This wonderful phrase belongs to R. Kipling. Well, how to argue with her? A woman certainly will not do this!
Часто авторы крылатых выражений остаются unknown, but this does not prevent admire the meaning of what was said. Here are some short phrases about love: "I came, I saw, she won"; "Love is conquered only by flight"; "Love is a toothache in the heart." The list of such aphorisms is truly amazing. But even more impressive is the diversity of human feelings and the uniqueness of the love experience of each person who has decided to share his conclusions.
Faina Ranevskaya on the same topic
The great Soviet actress Ranevskaya is known notonly for its bright film roles, but also for witty expressions. The actress was not too happy in her personal life, therefore the phrases she made about love and family are both funny and bitter at the same time. At one of her meetings with the audience, a young girl asked Ranevskaya: “What is love?”. The answer was brief: "I forgot." However, after a moment, the actress clarified: "I remember that this is something very pleasant".The same bitter irony fulfilled other phrases of the great actress. “Family replaces everything. Therefore, before you start it, you should think what is more important to you: the whole or the family. ” Another: “A fairy tale is when he married a frog, and she turned out to be a princess. And profit, this is when the opposite. "
Conclusion
Once a popular Soviet song claimed:"Do not speak about love - everything is said about her." But, apparently, not all the words have been uttered yet. New people come to the world, break their hearts with love, and then turn their own tragedy into some memorable phrase. But is it always worth trusting someone else's love experience? Is not it better to find your own, really priceless? This is true: feelings can be bitter. Yet it is better to experience this bitterness yourself than to judge love only by someone else’s phrases.