Таинство крещения стало для нас не великим rite, but rather the same routine after the birth of a child, like, say, vaccinations. You can, of course, not to do, but it is worth to be safe. Russian people for a long time were cut off from the church. Suffice it to recall the famous novel The Master and Margarita, where Bulgakov vividly describes the neglect of faith characteristic of that time. That is why modern society has forgotten what godparents are necessary for and what the rite of baptism itself carries. In the world of bureaucracy, even evidence testifies that the sacrament took place. But if you are a future godmother, study your duties carefully. There are no trifles in this question!
The Godmother: Responsibilities and Responsibilities
Some girls take very seriouslythese kind of offers. That's right. You will not only spoil the child with gifts, but be responsible for his moral education. A special spiritual bond will have to be formed between the cross and the godson. You can say that you will be a mentor
Let's start with the preparation.If the baptism of the child is scheduled, the rules for the godfather and the godfather are very simple. First go to church and find out when they have special preliminary conversations. There they will tell you about the ritual itself and your further duties. Before the sacrament it is necessary to take the sacrament, also the date must be chosen so that it does not coincide with the menstruation days at the cross, because it will not be allowed to go to the font.
The church will explain to you in detail when they spendgeneral rites of baptism and individual, as well as voiced their value. Do not forget to buy a cross and a special vest (baptismal dress). There are no special rules regarding who should pay the costs of the sacrament, but it is still believed that this is the prerogative of the godparents.
If both parents were needed before,now often only one is invited. Accordingly, for the girl - a woman, and for the boy - a man. But church ministers advise to follow the old canons. After all, the godfather and the godmother, whose duties are the spiritual upbringing of the child, are the support and support for the baby.
You are afraid of such a wonderful “title” asgodmother? Responsibilities and responsibilities scare you? Experiencing should not be, but it is worth considering. First of all about who invited you. If this is a close person with whom you are connected more than just friendship, and the birth of a baby in a strange family has caused your delight - agree. Knowledge of prayers and faith in God is not everything that matters. The main thing is that the baby becomes almost your family. Love is the basis of the foundations; thanks to it, a special bond will be established between you, which will protect your godchild.
If the request comes from a person for youfar, do not rush to agree. Perhaps the child will love you, and you will, but you cannot be sure about it. It is not too good when the godmother, whose duties are very important, is aloof from the godson (meaning not only and not so much distance as the relationship, the desire to help and participate in destiny). Take the rite of baptism very seriously. If you have cool relations with the parents of the baby, but for some reason the offer has been received, it is better to refuse tactfully.
