What is a holistic person? This question can be heard from people who want to become better, to realize themselves, to live happily.
Holistic personality. Description
And one who is firmly called such a special personhe is sure of himself, knows what he wants, and takes everything around him as he is, and does not try to resist fate. A person respects the choice of everyone, including his own. One can say of such a person that he looks at things with a real look and draws appropriate conclusions, even if they contradict external pressure. This is a man whose inner world is harmonious with the outside. Confidence and peace of mind accompany him in life.
Material and spiritual flows are inbalance between themselves. When the personality is complete, it is driven by its inner compass-truth. Man is part of the universe, he feels unity with the world. There is a filling of his life energy. To the world, he shows interest, talents are realized and internal resources are activated. Personality is filled with vital energy through energy channels.
Education
Holistic education of the individual occursdue to the fact that there comes a clear awareness of all that is happening. Each lesson brings to life a person something necessary for development. Even this person allows you to experience any emotions for yourself and accepts everything, and even the dark sides of your character, with the confidence that this will teach her everything. Such people know how to enjoy every moment in life, they feel inner freedom, because they look at the world from the position of God. And it can be said with firm certainty that these individuals lack anxiety and experience.
Opportunities for them are open to them.development, knowledge of everything new, and life itself becomes a great adventure. Man radiates to the outside world such energy as joy, warmth and light. He wants to share it all with the surrounding society.
When does the formation begin?
The formation of a holistic personality occurs onlywhen a person thinks that he is not satisfied with something in life. It also happens if the inner voice tells him that he is going the wrong way. Perhaps a person does not even suspect that the matter is in integrity and that one should pay attention to one’s inner world.
Often, such a person takes into account notall components of their essence, mostly just appearance, character or physical form. At the same time, she forgets that a person is a combination of mental, energetic and physical processes.
Protective mechanisms
First of all, the whole person is considered withthe position of such a science as psychology. Here the person herself is the main subject for study in this area. Personality is considered from the social side, its behavior in society, the presence of individual properties and qualities of character. It is formed with certain beliefs and principles, conscious of the man himself. Holistic personality psychology implies a kind of defensive reaction. There are several such mechanisms in nature, and they work when something threatens a person. Some properties of the personality can be attributed to the defensive reaction, such as:
- replacement, when the incoming aggression from someone to the person from it automatically switches to another person;
- repression - a person forbids herself to perceive those thoughts and feelings that caused suffering, forgetting or not knowing that all this remains in the subconscious, which is not good for herself;
- projection - when one imposes his irrational thoughts on another or several people, thus shifting his flaws or flaws to others.
The man personally elects and adheres to them.Thanks to integrity, he gains psychological stability at a high level when there is a choice between achieving goals and proposed values. Not everyone is given to have such status as an integral person. Everything depends on the peculiarities of upbringing, on relations in the family where the person grew up, on interaction with the environment and on its influence. Whole personality is not born. Its formation depends on the interaction and influence of the external environment.
Power model of development
Personality can develop in two models:power and model of inner harmony. In the first case, the beliefs are tough, and they are defended in open conflict. And the person is not going to “give up their positions”. As a result, the person breaks down entirely, which cannot be said about the harmony model. Where there are not only beliefs, but also morality, spiritual values. Man is ready to sacrifice his convictions for himself and his life.
The power model can be attributed to a greater extent toto the man. It is not easy for it to adopt external laws and requirements with control. Although the main thing for him is to agree with them. After this happens, the man watches it all himself. He came to this.
Model of inner harmony
The holistic personality, which is in the model of inner harmony, is also supported by inner flexibility. That is, when a person safely accepts the environment as it is, and she - his.
Присутствие гармонии внутри можно обозначить как the absence of conflict between the internal parts of the individual, as well as only a positive worldview. The person realizes and accepts that the understanding of those around him and himself should be first of all. Moreover, he himself wants to notice only the strengths and positives. Such people are not engaged in self-incrimination. Internal flexibility helps for some time to adapt to the stringent requirements of the external environment, allowing you to use any opportunity to return to its original state. This model is mainly characteristic of the fair sex.
Inconsistent person. Description
If a person has no goals, constantlycontradicts everyone and himself, does not know how to make decisions, or shifts them to others in order not to bear responsibility for them, then such a person can hardly be called integral. For these people there is no benchmark in life, their companions are self-doubt and low self-esteem. The consequences of all this are the constant change of personal convictions and disappointment in everything.
Why it happens?Perhaps, the upbringing or the surrounding society played a role here, which introduced the framework of the restriction. Or maybe situations that have hurt and affected the person’s rejection of himself. Then feelings are banned in order to avoid suffering in the future. Communication with the soul is lost, and responsibility takes on the mind. Surely many were in a situation where betrayal, disappointment, stress, or intense grief led to a loss of integrity.
Но не все, находясь в критических условиях, retain their qualities of a holistic personality and remain unchanged in relation to their life positions. It all depends on temperament and the type of person. A person who does not want to recognize her talents, wants to be successful, but does not take steps to do this, sees only flaws in herself and in others, feels more self-loathing than love, the definition of “holistic personality” does not fit. The holistic person understands his purpose. He follows internal guidance in a given situation.
Integrity Tips
A person who is not in integrity, notcan see its true state, it is hard for her to do. For this you need to look into the soul, ask yourself what is necessary for the complete development of the personality to come into his life.
Reconnect with the inner world, open uplight and all positive energies. It is necessary to strive for this and sincerely want it. When a person establishes contact with his soul, the right circumstances, bright people and opportunities come to life. The main thing is to notice all this and be grateful for everything. Usually a teacher comes to life, a mentor who brings him to the level of awareness.
When everything that comes to life is accepted aswhat was planned by the soul, as some kind of experience or game, then unity with the world is restored. Cleansing of thin bodies, working with all internal blocks will help to come to a complete revival of integrity. The highest source of energy will bring all aspects to harmony among themselves with the help of powerful vibrations into a single whole. You can also come to this state differently.
Man must prove himself in the works.Accepting responsibility for one’s life, confidence in the world and turning attention inward also helps to restore the integrity of a person. Willingness and desire to feel this state must be present necessarily. Do not contradict anyone or anyone. Everything should happen easily and naturally. Meditation and proper breathing will help achieve unity. After that, the person himself will be able to freely enter the general flow with higher energies. Entry into a state of integrity has no boundaries, there is a process of unification with the Universe, nature and the right energies.
Conclusion
Only when a person firmly knows andrealizes that in order to harmonize with himself and the world, he needs to develop, to realize himself in the necessary aspects for the further happy and bright life, the formation of an integral personality takes place. Slowly reveals his inner potential, about which, perhaps, he did not know himself. Everything goes to the fact that the person finds his "I". In essence, the development of personality is the formation and filling of spiritual and physical forces, which bring it to the realization of understanding its essence and role in nature.
