Man differs from animals, among other things,the presence of a wide range of feelings and emotions. Anger is manifested by people everywhere: at home, on the road, in public transport, at work, in nature, with friends, etc. That's why there will always be someone who wants to understand why a person close or not is showing aggression, what is the nature of this phenomenon. And some especially soft and kind young ladies will even seek advice on how to become wicked.
Definition and essence
For a start, you can see what the dry saysscientific interpretation. According to the explanatory dictionaries and reference books on psychology, anger is an emotion or a feeling of anger, ill-will, aggression, vexation or fury, caused by someone or something that prevents the person from getting what he wants. It can be directed either to an object specifically, or to a group of similar objects, and may not have a specific addressee. There are two types: with positive influence on the individual (for example, in sports) and with negative (for example, the desire to cause physical harm to someone or commit unlawful actions).
Instinct for survival
Nature worked hard to createhuman in both physiological and psychological terms. Much of what we today call emotions and feelings, in fact, is nothing more than instincts. For example, to express their attitude toward what is happening, a person has learned to laugh or cry. And in order to defend their place in the group and in this cruel world, homo sapiens had nothing else but to become angrier. It was the manifestation of aggression and hostility that helped our ancestors to stay in a harsh world where every day was a struggle for life in the literal sense. This instinct is handed down to the modern man by inheritance and getting rid of it is unlikely to work out. And is it necessary? And the fact that we become angrier with the years, is explained very simply: the accumulated experience, unrealized dreams, a subconscious understanding of the approach of the end. This is all the tricks of nature, so to speak, a component of the survival instinct.
We are not such, but life is so
How to become evil?It's very simple: change the environment! It is the surrounding people who often become the cause of aggression, cruelty and anger. For example, a child from a family with an unhappy emotional environment is unlikely to grow up good. And this applies not only to antisocial elements, such as alcoholics, drug addicts or gamblers. Most likely, the child will grow up evil in a family where often shout, scandalous or even fight. In adulthood, everything happens in a similar way. Getting into the environment of aggressively-minded classmates, colleagues, friends or neighbors, a person willy-nilly adjusts to the situation. All this is due to the manifestation of the same instinct inherent in nature: to survive, nothing remains, except how to become angrier.
Do not come near - kill!
Very often the subordinates are afraid of theirleaders, and discussing orders and assignments among themselves, are accused of excessive aggression. Than it is caused? There are two possible answers. First, many people literally drive power crazy. Instead of striving for something new, to develop and learn, they choose the path of self-affirmation by humiliating the dignity of others. Constantly emphasizing their superiority, such individuals feel better, more confident. The root of this behavior is often found in the wrong education or stress experienced in childhood or adolescence. But another option is possible. For example, a young, smart and beautiful employee suddenly appointed head of the department, which employs a dozen young ladies, not really tuned to productive work. Or in this office are exclusively men who do not take the leader seriously in a skirt. Of course, it will not be easy for her to subordinate such a team and force her to work, and she will probably choose the way to become wicked and make her subordinates afraid of herself.
Still waters run deep
More often than not people become evil not for the goodwill, but because of any circumstances. For example, a man became wicked after he lost his favorite job, or went bust in business. His aggression and hostility can be addressed as to individuals whom he considers to be guilty in his failures, and to the whole world, if the causes of what happened can not be blamed on someone specific. This can happen even with someone who was previously considered an optimist and a hilarious person.
Or another example:sweet, quiet and modest girl became angry after her loved one was thrown and left for her childhood friend. Turning a gray mouse into a real bitch happens quite often, because unhappy love or a broken heart is accompanied by very strong emotional experiences that awaken in our minds previously dormant feelings.
Unfulfilled ambitions or the collapse of a dream can change the psychological state of absolutely anyone, even a very kind and welcoming one.
Fashionable emotional trends
If someone complains:“I’m getting angry, I don’t know what to do, I scream at everyone and I hate everyone”, etc., it is worth advising this person to get like-minded people. Perhaps among them he or she will feel better and more confident. Today, as it is not surprising, it is becoming fashionable to be aggressive and lonely. In social networks, whole groups of such hermits are created who do not believe in the power of Good, but since childhood they are convinced that Evil is clever, insidious, cunning, strong.
Is anger good or bad?
So why a person becomes evil is understandable.The causes and nature of the phenomenon are clear. But is it bad to be evil? Everything created by nature has its own meaning and purpose. Sometimes the manifestation of aggression is vitally necessary for the individual to survive or stabilize the psychological state. If you need to cause a storm of emotions, then there are several ways to become angry. First, you can imagine yourself in an extremely unpleasant situation and play it in your mind before getting the desired result. If the imagination fails and nothing happens, it is worth trying the second method. To do this, you need to surround yourself with irritants: turn on the TV show or music, which cause obvious rejection, change the temperature mode in the room to an uncomfortable level, or put on uncomfortable clothes. Just a little time - and the person is already "evil as a dog."
In this issue, the main thing - a sense of proportion.You can not restrain your emotions and you must give them a way out, but if anger already hits over the edge, then you can restrain a little, for example, to engage in such sports as boxing or wrestling, leave darts, shoot at the dash, or go far beyond the city in a dense forest and shout to the world all that you think about it.
