Мы приходим в мир помимо нашей воли и не нам destined to choose parents, brothers and sisters, teachers, classmates, relatives. Perhaps this ends the circle of communication that is sent from above. Further, human life in many respects begins to depend on himself, on the choice that he makes.
Correct social circle
The formation and upbringing of a person depends primarily on parents and grandparents, and then on all others. No wonder they say that the right social circle is the key to a successful life.
The concept of a successful life does not necessarily includematerial goods. Successful can be called a person who, summing up his life, gets some satisfaction from the past. The moral component here is of paramount importance.
In the first years of life, it is the surrounding people.help to perceive the world, affect the outlook of the child. There is a famous saying: "Tell me who your friend is - and I will tell you who you are." In a sense, a person is a reflection of all those people with whom he constantly encounters. And if the familiar social circle in which he rotates or lives is in some way erroneous, then the person will be partially or completely mistaken, even with a bright personality.
Как же расширить круг общения, если это needed? There are many answers to this question. To become more sociable, you do not need to be afraid of people, you have to be open, but not too trusting. Sincerely interested in the life of the interlocutor, help at least with advice or deed - all this will help to make friends and acquaintances.
Energy Vampires
In addition to the worldview, we are also affectedpsychological atmosphere at home, at work, at school. If people are prone to pessimism, see everything in a bad light, are suspicious and irritable, or, on the contrary, are overly sociable and optimistic in life, their influence will shape the character for better or worse. Psychologists advise as a fire to avoid eternal whiners and "losers" in life. Such people have been identified as energy vampires, sucking the life juices of loved ones, not allowing others to realize themselves as a person.
Therefore, to keep successful, energetic people is much more profitable for spiritual development.
A person becomes healthy both on the physical and onmental level. No matter what your social circle is at the moment, if you want to move forward for the better, then surround yourself with those who live a similar life, adopt their habits, lifestyle, of course, taking into account your own individuality.
Modern subcultures
In young years it is easy to fall under the influence of howgood and bad company. For example, many subcultures have now developed, the appearance of which representatives already speak for themselves. There are so-called metallers who wear long hair, leather, metal rivets, and so on. Rappers are characterized by wide sliding trousers, sneakers, shapeless jackets of huge sizes, goths wear black clothes, “mow down” under vampires. There are many communities, so business people, office workers are obliged to come to work in strict suits with ties, women must wear elegant shoes with heels and so on.
And in every society there is a moral,moreover, from the point of view of the participants of this society, their morality is the most correct, others do not live as it should. The social circle of some people who profess the Christian faith may differ from another Christian society like heaven and earth.
Множество сект, распространенных по всему миру, they carry out their policies, lure people to themselves in different ways, promising them material wealth and the "kingdom of heaven". Many fall for the bait, become members of a sect, from which it is then much more difficult to get out than to enter it.
How to understand - this is your social circle or not?
Not so long ago, in communist times,Soviet people lived and glorified their leaders, the party, considering that the rest of the world was dissolved, unjust, corrupt, and so on. And in terms of the West, we were limited and zombie people.
Joining one society, you need to look at whoenters the social circle, what kind of morality is being preached. At the first stage, a person is attracted by new interests and prospects; he enters into an unusual circle for himself with wariness. Then, having become accustomed, a person’s vigilance and restraint evaporate and give way to adaptation. He becomes an active member of society, performs all sorts of tasks and, making progress, grows in a “career” sense.
But, inevitably comes the third stage -disappointment. Maybe from the side of some of the parties, especially the "star", seem attractive, alluring, but becoming a member of such societies, seeing that there is no real development and progress in them, but there are the same conversations, a circle of thoughts, one and the same attributes, a person starts to get bored, he becomes uninteresting.
Time of insight
It is human nature to change, to strive forthe best, so when the worldview breaks down - this is the most difficult moment in the life of each of us. There is a severe psychological stress. It seems that the unshakable world is collapsing, everything that you understood before, had a price, has now been devalued, does not make sense. But this is also a time of grace - the time of insight, the discovery of a new level of knowledge. Everyone should carefully look at the present and remember that last social circle, dragging into the swamp of everyday life.
The past will make itself felt for a long time,each member is reluctantly released, especially in sects. The members of the sect begin to convince the one who is leaving, that he has not fully realized the righteousness of the chosen path, he must stay and continue “his way” and so on.
If, nevertheless, the decision is ripe - you need to go, forown implementation. In general, a person should not limit himself to only one social circle, be it a school, a workplace or the Internet. Search and find is a valuable and interesting process in life, because man is created in the image and likeness of God, creativity is inherent in each of us.
The man of my circle of communication
This concept includes people united by commoninterests. Talents are given to any of us, who need to be realized in life, and not buried in the ground. Tendency to a particular area manifests itself in childhood. Attentive parents can easily notice the talent of the child. Some people like to sing, others like to draw, some are sociable, they easily become leaders, others, on the contrary, are shy, they do not communicate well with children and adults.
Все положительные качества нужно развивать, а с negative - gently nullify. So, an uncommunicative child should not be thrown "over the head" into kindergarten, it is better to gradually reduce it with other kids, while being present itself.
Overactive baby need to be able to keep inhands, without limiting his freedom. The social circle of children is more cruel than an adult. Children gladly make fun of the shortcomings of others without thinking about the consequences, so if a kindergarten kid or schoolboy gets a derogatory nickname and cannot independently defend his own position, then this nickname will live with him for a long time, maybe until the end of days.
Conclusion
The role of the teacher, the class teacher andNaturally, parents, in many ways, become the guiding star for the fragile soul. If the child gets the right, good parents and teachers, we can assume that he was largely lucky in life.
As an adult, in difficult days for himself, he will remember the instructions of his elders and life will not seem so cruel and unfair.
