Only the elect have charisma, and they dream of it.millions. A charismatic person is a congenital leader and a favorite of the gods, who leads people. It has a magnet inside it that attracts other people.
Charismatic is what?
Translated from the ancient Greek word "charisma"means "divine gift", "grace", "talent". To consider yourself a person deprived of any talent means to put an end on yourself and on all your future. Of course, everyone has more or less charisma. Not a single person has been born who would be deprived of God's gift. Indeed, in each there is a spiritual beginning, which means there are certain talents.
There is an opinion that a charismatic person isnecessarily either a politician or a star of show business. In other words, it is the presence of a large audience that is an indicator of its uniqueness and chosenness. But such an opinion is fundamentally wrong.
How to become charismatic?
Как уже говорилось раньше, внутри каждого из нас there is a spark from birth, but due to the prevailing circumstances or a particular upbringing, it fades away over the years. However, all is not lost! By long training charisma you can try to work out at home.
Самое первое - нужно развивать уверенность, так how difficult it is to imagine an uncertain and shy charismatic. It is also important to have your own personal opinion and not be ashamed to express it, always be responsible for your actions and not be afraid to take responsibility for them. Initiative, ability and desire to take on the solution of the problem first, without waiting for support or assistance from the side - these are the distinctive features of any leader.
It is also advisable to learn to laugh at yourself,thus demonstrating that you, like any other, sometimes make blunders or inaccuracies. Accepting your mistakes and learning how to get out of any difficult situation with humor, you are one step closer to your goal. After all, a charismatic person is also an optimist who is able to look at life and some life difficulties through the lens of positive and find something good and useful even in a negative situation.
And of course, in order to please people, you needso that people like you. It is necessary to learn to listen, to be not indifferent to other people's problems. In communication, you need to inspire confidence and be able to not only show yourself from the best side, but also show your interlocutor his own merits, make him understand that he is very interesting to you and his opinion is important.
The most important thing is always and in any situation.stay yourself, don't try to be who you really aren't. After all, people immediately recognize falsehood and pretense. Positive, openness and unquenchable love for life and people will surely help you find charisma in yourself.
