Very often we hear from familiar sayings:I am the most miserable, why I am not lucky and so on. Many are so merged with the image of offended lives of people that it becomes almost impossible to convince them. Very often, such thoughts cause real insult or even anger at others. A man begins to think that everything is against him. In the end, he risks losing friends and being left alone.
Give an unambiguous answer to the question of whyThis or that person has no luck in private life, at work or in relationships with friends, it is impossible. However, you can get out of this situation only on your own.
First you need to clearly articulate allyour negative thoughts. It is advisable to write them on a sheet of paper and read it carefully. After that, reformulate them in such a way that they become positive.
It is very important to learn how to tune in to the best.No wonder our grandmothers said that all that is being done is for the best. This simple saying perfectly helps to survive even very difficult situations, which, unfortunately, often happen in life.
Answer for yourself only three questions:
- What does not suit you in life?
- How do you want it to be?
- What prevents to achieve the desired?
Having received specific answers to your questions, youYou can remove from the life all that is superfluous, something that does not allow you to be truly happy. Try to live as if luck has come to you. And it will not make you wait long.
Stop asking the question: why am I not lucky?Everyone in life has moments when nothing happens and give up. Most often, trouble happens only in one area of life. This may be work, personal or family life. Never quarrel with loved ones just because it does not go well at work. So you do not solve the problem, but make it worse.
Very rare global bad luck.Most often, the reason that “I’m not lucky” is unrealistic plans or unattainable goals. This leads to a decline in vitality, low self-esteem and unwillingness to do anything. If the situation cannot be changed, then the only correct decision will be a change of attitude towards it. Changes are always for the better, even if they occurred on the basis of unpleasant events to you. Belief in this - the key to success.
By analyzing the situation or the question “why I am not lucky,” you can find the answers. But this is not enough. We must have a desire to rectify the situation and, of course, know how to do it.
Try to lower your requirements a little.Do not invent yourself goals that will be impossible to achieve. Most often, only bad memories are remembered. Try to change that. Pay attention to all the pleasant things that happen in life. And do it every day.
As a result, you will get used to the idea that wonderful things constantly happen in life, you are lucky even more than some of your friends.
Самое главное - поверить в себя, в свою мечту, и you will see how the world around will change for the better, and the wheel of fortune will begin to rotate in the direction you want. Having ceased to ask the question “why I am not lucky,” you will finally begin a full life.
Не стоит забывать, что каким бы радужным ни был the world around us, trouble still happens. It is very important not to fall into despair or depression. For the black band should always be white and, most likely, today's troubles promise only good in the future. Tune in to positive. Think of an occupation that will distract from unpleasant thoughts. Go for a walk, to the cinema, to the club. Call old friends you may not have seen for a long time. Communicating with nice people, friendly atmosphere will make you remember all the good things that happened in your life. Thus, you will receive a charge of positive emotions that will help you find the right solution or way out of the current situation.
