7 years of marriage - is it a lot or a little?In our time, freedom, equality and perverse life values are rather a lot. Not every union is experiencing a seven-year milestone. This holiday is not only a tick in the notebook, but a whole event for the heroes of the occasion, and most likely, they want to be noticed and congratulated on this day on an appropriate scale. So let's try to grasp the essence of what is happening.
Historical background of the holiday
Поздравление с годовщиной свадьбы (7 лет) берет its origins in ancient Russia. The sacred institution of marriage is hallowed by our ancestors. The traditions of that time vividly reflect the need for tenderness, loyalty and prosperity in family life. All together, these three components carry the general welfare of the family both emotionally and materially. Of course, there are ups and downs in life, crises and successes - without them in any way. It is important to pass all these tests together, without defiling your sacred union with inappropriate thoughts and actions.
What is the name of 7 years of wedding?For many centuries, this anniversary is called copper wedding, as well as wool. As usual in Russia, no wonder he was given that name. Seven years is a period in which the spouses knew each other, got used, learned to understand. Let the passion of the first years have subsided, but the moment of another type of love has come. Responsibility for the second half, strong alliance, confidence in the future, stability. Therefore, a copper wedding is copper, although soft, but still metal.
Woolen 7 years of marriage were called for the ability to find compromises, to be soft in relation to the spouse, to keep warmth and comfort. After all, without all this, such a date cannot be reached together.
Ancient anniversary traditions
Many traditions of Slavic life were lost incenturies. Some were forgotten, some disappeared as unnecessary, and so on. But we still remember several traditions, although in most cases we do not observe or are following with some deviations from the basic rules. Such traditions also extend to congratulations on their wedding anniversary (7 years).
Previously, on the seventh anniversary, the spouses presented to each other.friend with coins. Coins were not simple, namely from copper. Such a gift is connected, as it is easy to guess, with material well-being. The coin has always been a symbol of monetary allowance.
The next traditional action washanging a copper horseshoe over the entrance to the house. This is the guardian of the family and its abode. Horseshoe will not let into the house evil spirits, thoughts, negative wishes. In addition, she brings good luck. So this symbol has two whole values.
The third tradition concerns the equipment of spouses on the day of celebration. The husband must have a knife with him, and his wife must have a purse full of coins.
Making a copper wedding
Поздравление с годовщиной свадьбы (7 лет) должно take place in the appropriate festive atmosphere. But what should it be? How to arrange a banquet, family feast or a romantic evening with your second half?
Считается, что в эту дату необходимо сделать то, what you previously refused, were afraid, could not be realized for any reason. 7 is the number of change and diversity. Copper wedding should be different from all previous life. Do not be afraid of experiments and the most crazy ideas. Do everything in a special way. For example, if before you always celebrated holidays with your family, in the company of a huge number of relatives, this time take a ticket to warm countries for two and on the beach with a tropical cocktail in your hands once again confess your love to your spouse.
If the plans to arrange a banquet, let the tablesdecorate the elements of copper utensils. For example, a samovar, candlesticks, jugs or vases. Order a florist special flower arrangements on the subject. An experienced master will definitely come up with something special.
How to celebrate the seventh anniversary
Celebration process and anniversary greetings7 years old wedding guests and the spouses themselves can take place in absolutely any setting. Clear traditions in this regard is not prescribed. It all depends on the imagination of the organizers. Actually, who will act as an organizer is also a voluntary decision. Surprise for spouses can be prepared by relatives, and just as it can be arranged independently.
Теплое время года позволяет накрыть стол на nature, arrange an outing picnic, to arrange a festive atmosphere at the dacha. There is no shortage of festive paraphernalia, so fantasy remains the key point. If there is an opportunity, you can reserve a banquet hall or cafe for your anniversary, and then you will not have to think about cooking and serving. And it is possible to celebrate this day together, without any witnesses, and listen to the congratulations by phone.
7 years of wedding: what to give?
Gifts are one of the nicest parts of any.developments. And even more so such a large-scale event as 7 years of wedding! What to give spouses on such a date? This is where the traditional trends will help us. You have not forgotten that the seventh anniversary is a copper and at the same time woolen wedding? So from this and should proceed, choosing a gift.
The first traditional gift is a horseshoe.Decorative, beautifully beaten, they will decorate the interior of lovers and bring happiness and good luck to the house. The next option of a gift from guests can be copper dishes, cutlery, and candlesticks.
A gift for a wife from a husband can be copper.decoration, brooch, pendant. A wife can give her husband a belt with a copper plaque. And according to tradition, on the seventh anniversary of the couple exchanged copper rings, which were kept as carefully as wedding.
As for the wool part, these are knitted clothes (sweaters, shawls, scarves), rugs, and carpets. Now handicraft has become fashionable again. You can donate a toy pet with your own hands.
Greeting words and poems
In all congratulations, the most important thing is warmth andcordiality. Desire that which comes from the heart, for 7 years of wedding. Poems - a pleasant opportunity to express your warm wishes in a pleasant rumor syllable. If they are also self-composed, it will show the importance of the addressee in your life. For example:
1. The event is the brightest today -
Seventh anniversary spouses.
We wish the patronage of the Lord,
Happy and magical days!
2. You are together, by the hand of 7 years,
In the days of happiness, in the days of sorrow, misfortunes.
You have become so close to each other.
Let me wish you a miracle!
Let the marriage be durable,
Do not know you grief and loss
We wish you not to part,
Go through life and laugh!
