The cemetery of many people is associated with somethingterrible, unpleasant and unwanted. But there are days when all relatives should gather at the grave of a deceased family member to take away the burial place, remember the person and honor his memory.
The modern generation is increasingly losing touch with thetraditions and does not even know when people go to the cemetery to honor the deceased. Young people without special desire to trudge for their parents or grandparents, because just so you need to do. And more often you can hear arguments about whether it's worthwhile to go to the cemetery at all, for a dead person will not help, and for the living this duty is only a burden. One thing can be said: everything must come from the heart.
Memorable days
Orthodox traditions have a certain list of days,when it is worth going to the cemetery in order to honor the deceased. Thus, the list of meat Saturday is opened - the last before the Great Lent. During it, you can also commemorate the deceased, but only on Saturdays - the second, third, fourth. Important to visit the cemetery is Radunica - the day that falls on the second Tuesday after Easter. It is believed that at this moment the living together with the dead rejoice at the resurrection of Christ. When go to the cemetery to the soldiers? May 9, they are grateful for their great feat of victory. Also honor the dead soldiers and September 11, the day of the cutting of the head of John the Baptist. More days when people go to the cemetery to their relatives: the Trinity Saturday is the day before the feast of the Holy Trinity, and also on Dmitrovskaya Saturday, November 8, when it is also customary to remember all the dead people.
We figured out when they go to the cemetery.Now it is worth to find out what to be afraid of coming to such a place. Often you can hear the question of whether you can go to the cemetery at night. The people believe that you can not be here even after noon, because after this, people will be mercilessly mocked devils, constantly spoiling his life. Not to mention the night period. Also, do not come to the cemetery drunk or get drunk at the burial place of the dead. This can only show contempt for dead people, while anger their souls. And this does not end in good never. But this does not mean that you can not drink at all in the cemetery. On the contrary, to remember a native person with a mouthful of good wine is even necessary. Also, do not swear and swear at the cemetery grounds, because all the bad words spoken by a person immediately "stick" to it and affect life. The dead do not forgive disrespect. And most importantly, do not bring anything from the cemetery to your house. It is believed that this can bring on trouble, bringing into the house a piece of "dead life."
It is also worthwhile to understand why it is impossible to walk ona cemetery for pregnant women, nursing mothers and small children. It's all a bit simpler. Many people know that there are people who can do bad things - black magicians, grandmothers-whisks, etc. Often a favorite place for bad people is the graveyard, because Only here at the maximum you can eat negative dead energy. And the above-mentioned category of people is the most unprotected, they are often "clinging" to all the bad things that can happen there. And if you really want to go to the grave of a native person, you need to try to protect yourself by taking with you a cross and attaching a pin to the back of your clothes.
