It is hard to be a good wife.It is impossible to imagine what it is like to be the wife of a man of genius, and besides, a good one. Give genius happiness and peace. Give all of yourself for peace, love and harmony in the family, while remaining a person. Anna Dostoevskaya managed to do the impossible.
Stenographer
Netochka Snitkina had to enroll in coursesstenographers in order to help the family financially. And she, being the best student, was offered to work with Fyodor Mikhailovich Dostoevsky, whose works she read out.
Complex ambiguous feelings
Anna Dostoevskaya first of all regretted her husband,adored his talent and wanted to make his life easier, in which his relatives viciously interfered. Fyodor Mikhailovich offered to leave Petersburg, but there was no money. Anna Dostoevskaya almost without hesitation laid her dowry - and here they are, first in Moscow and then in Geneva. There they stayed for four years. In Baden, Fyodor Mikhailovich lost everything he had, including his wife’s dresses. But, realizing that this is a disease, Anna Dostoevskaya did not even reproach her husband. Her humility was appreciated by the Lord and he cured the player forever of his all-consuming passion. They had a daughter, but she died after three months. Both suffered endlessly. But the Lord sent them a second daughter. Together with her, they returned to their homeland. And in the very first week in Russia they had a son.
Character changes
All noted that Anna Dostoevskaya becameresolute and strong-willed. The writer has accumulated huge debts. The young wife undertook to tackle difficult material matters, freeing the impractical writer from this routine. Dostoevsky could only marvel at the stubbornness and inflexibility of the character of a loving and family-friendly woman.
Family affair
Book publishing and book sellingorganizational ability of Anna Grigorievna went successfully. Is not the personal achievements of Anna Dostoevsky? Success inspired the writer. But Anna Grigorievna also never missed little things. When they went somewhere, she stocked up a rug to wrap up her spouse, took cough medicine, handkerchiefs. This is all imperceptible, but indispensable, and valued by the spouse, as the highest manifestation of love.
Big job
Of course, family happiness does not come by itself.Behind him stands tireless work on oneself, which Anna Grigorievna did. She humbled her natural impulse, because of which quarrels could have occurred and occurred. But they always ended in reconciliation, and Fyodor Mikhailovich fell in love with her with a new force. And his inner life was complicated and tense. It was at times a little naughty child, in addition a sick and demanding one. That is, the feelings of the spouses are not stuck in life, and were full of mutual concern.
Collecting stamps
Even when he was in Geneva, the young couple argued.Fyodor Mikhailovich assured that a woman is not able to do anything for a long time. To which, having flashed, Anna replied that she would start collecting stamps and would not give up this occupation. She immediately bought a dowser in the stationery shop and proudly pasted the first stamp on the letter that came to them at home. The hostess, seeing this, gave her vintage stamps.
Irreparable grief
Fyodor Mikhailovich was a very sick man.Emphysema brought him to the grave in 1881. Anna Grigoryevna was thirty-five years old. Everyone was talking about the genius that the country had lost, but everyone forgot about his widow, who had lost happiness and love with him. She vowed to live for their children and in order to publish a collection of his writings, and created his museum. This is evidenced by her biography. Anna Dostoevskaya served her husband after his death.
Сама Анна Григорьевна скончалась в 1918 году в Crimea. She was seriously ill, starving, the civil war was already beginning, and she continued to dismantle the manuscript of her husband, creating the archive of Fyodor Mikhailovich. This is how Anna Grigorievna Dostoevskaya lived her life. Her biography is both simple and complex at the same time.