Life is complicated.Not everything in it from childhood laid out on the shelves. A person, in order to set his own rhythm of life, needs to adapt to it. Someone breaks, but we'll talk about them later and not in this article. Someone never puts the little things in life into places, accumulating them in a heap of rubbish on the outskirts of the brain. We won't talk about them either, at least for now.
We talk about pedants.About people who always know exactly what they will do for a long time to come. About people strictly following the regime. About those who always do everything right. And who knows exactly how to.
Pedantry. What is it and what is it fraught with for others?
If your home is strictly enforcedthe rule "All-must-lie-only-on-their-own-places-and-dot", if the toilet never runs out of toilet paper, and in the sugar bowl - sugar, if you have lunch at two in the afternoon "And-not-dare- late "then you live with the pedant. There are no unambiguous examples, it can be anything, the general rule is only one thing: always and in all respect for careful accuracy and order. It also applies to communication: speech pedantry is when a person needlessly speaks out in detail. For example, "apple tree" instead of "apple tree", etc.
Чаще всего эта черта характера не самая лучшая и perceived by others negatively. After all, despite all the positive aspects (and this is responsibility, and accuracy, and thoroughness, and punctuality), the pedant remains that kind of bore. Zealously observing a clear order, a person sticks to it - neither development nor movement.
Most often annoying is not pedantry itself.What is it inherently? Just a collection of character traits that distinguish between hard and accurate people. Pettiness and ignorance are the distinguishing features of a pedant. You will not be enraged by the fact that he puts his toothbrush with villus to the north, but that he will force you to follow it. But he will not force him - so he will blame you for not doing this. This is called the authority of pedantry. Let's discuss this in more detail.
Take, for example, an ordinary office employee.Middle Manager. Let him be a pedant. There is not a single extra piece of paper on his desk, he immediately stitches each of them into the necessary folder with a separate file. Never to be late for work, always dressed neat and tidy in everything. Fine worker, isn't it? And now let's imagine that this was not an ordinary office clerk, but the head of that same office. It is unlikely the pedant endowed with power would keep silent about the blunders of other workers.
Or here's another option:woman snatching households for the eternal mess in the house. Examples of mass. And at the heart of all of them will be the petty, tight control over the hand-distributed stages of work. This limits not only the leader, but also the subordinate. By the way, for most mentally ill people, such a trait as pedantry is tracked. What is it - an accident or fishing?
So, how to treat such people?Can we definitely say that it is bad or good? Pedantry - what is it? Aggressive way to occupy others, something akin to fascism? Or just protection from your own phobias, sometimes overstepping? It is hardly possible to come to an unequivocal answer, to make the right choice. But each person as a multifaceted person has the right to hesitate. Circumstances decide.
