In the modern world, family traditions havetendency to somewhat change, but the godparents according to the Christian rite remain mandatory for the newborn. Relations between godfathers and godchildren are not so relevant now, and the choice of kums is not so responsible. However, this relationship is not by blood, but by the soul, which invariably affects the family structure and the raising of offspring.
As in the old days, the godfather was chosen?
The rite of baptism is very ancient, rising totime of writing the Bible, so now people's attitudes towards him have changed, as modern people themselves have become different. But the church in this matter adheres to the orthodox rules that future godparents need to know.
- a person must be baptized into the Orthodox faith and not lead an immoral way of life;
- "Receivers" are recognized by the church only upon reaching the age of majority (although in ancient times the age limit for men was 15 years, and for women - 13;
- for a child, you can choose the godfather of both sexes, but earlier it was enough to have a single godfather of the same sex with a child;
- spouses or people who have sexual intercourse cannot at the same time be godfathers;
- one cannot choose the mentally ill, because of their lack of understanding of spiritual obligations and inadequate perception of the world;
- In no case can parents be godparents to their child.
In addition to these recommendations, there are moral aspects that must be respected by godparents.
Spiritual Postulates
That is why you can not choose unfamiliar people:it is necessary to know well the person who will be appointed to such a responsible “position”. Godfathers and mothers are second parents. Their functions are to educate and train the godson, to help him with advice in a difficult situation. Following church canons, godfathers should honor Orthodox traditions, dedicating in them their godchildren. The godparents go through life with their intended child, guiding and supporting him. Do not choose the godfather in terms of benefits, tempted by a higher position vis-à-vis, and also should not try to please someone - this is a responsible choice for the benefit of their own child.
Rumble sticks
Congratulations kouma can be both in prose and inin verse, the main thing is that they show sincerity. Of course, poetic texts are more pleasing to the ear and better perceived. Therefore, congratulations and wishes for the godmother should try to display in a poetic form. Since this is one of the closest people to your family, you should not skimp on pleasant words.
Godmother - the second mother,
Do not add, do not take away!
You have a birthday,
Congratulations we are loving,
Give sweets package,
Paradise life up to a hundred years!
We bring a glass of tea,
So that you lived, not bored!
There are gifts in the corner
For you on a happy day.
Be fun, daring, bright!
Joy chases away the shadow!
To your beautiful feet we throw bouquets,
You walk proudly dear petals.
You are the best of the godparents, you are tender and loved,
We would add a song, but not enough words!
You have succeeded in everything: in your family and at work
The very enchantment, the light of her husband's eyes!
Good, generous, about the neighbor all in cares,
Worthy of the brightest and fiery speeches.
Today is a special day, presents on the way,
Stuck in anticipation of the trees and houses.
You are the best creature of nature!
We will say: "Happy birthday, beloved godfather!".
Alternative options
If you independently create a poetic masterpiececan not, you can access the erudite Internet or literary sources. But there are cases that at the moment the wishes of the birthday of the kume cannot be made personally, for example, you live in different cities or the godmother is away. Then come to the aid of mobile communications or mail. Mobile operators in many offer congratulatory services: audio gifts, online postcards, comic voice greetings. If a lady appreciates humor, then kume's congratulations can be ordered in the voice of your favorite heroes, political figures, famous characters. A song as a gift will also be a great surprise at a distance: who will not be pleased with a favorite melody from loved ones?
Useful gifts
In addition to warm words and beautiful bouquets,to attend to the choice of something more tangible, that is, to think not only about the soul, but also about the material aspect. In other words, you should choose a kouma gift. If the godmother is a practical woman and strangers to lyrics, then useful gifts are perfect for her. It may be:
- quality linens;
- service;
- beautiful cooking utensils;
- unusual culinary delights: golden honey, a set of exclusive olive oils;
- technical innovations: bread machine, slow cooker and others.
In addition, a good idea to present kouma, lovingcooking, an apron with a funny inscription or a book with a leather binder called "The whole truth about cuma". It will bring a touch of humor and fun, so necessary on the day of birth.
It is good to surprise the godfather with originality and to give what she is unlikely to buy herself: a balloon flight, a trip on a motor ship or a boat.
If the godmother is a person with creativepotential, she will definitely appreciate designer items: watches, paintings, murals, original portraits, decorative chests that can be used as bars, figurines. Also a great solution would be to buy theater tickets.
If godmother is an advanced driver, then she is sharpneeds car accessories and modern gadgets like a registrar or navigator. A pleasant surprise will be an invitation to extreme driving courses.
A great gift are indoor plants, especially beautiful blooming. A popular gift will be a garden under a glass or an artificial fireplace.
Share joke
Congratulations and wishes for kume can be fixedhealthy and high-quality humor. There are funny gifts that will please not only the godmother, but also the guests. For example, a bottle of liquor, which itself is broadcasting the first toast, or the joking decree of Tsar Peter. Considerably amuse the bank with the inscription "Greens" - for storing banknotes, the original cover on the driver's license with the engraving "Let me go, I will not be any more!".
A bouquet created by the caring hands of florists, and perhaps even designers, will complement the gifts.
Congratulations kouma said with the soul, as well as purchased gifts will delight not only the birthday girl, but also the giver.
