Communication with a girl: a guide for young people

It is believed that the stronger sex behaves with the weakwomen are relaxed and independent that guys can easily start a conversation with any girl and invite her on a date. However, life is much more complicated and diverse than any stereotypes and statements. That is why far from always a young man can gain courage and give signs of attention to that young lady who liked him.

Communication with a girl is not a ritual, not a rite,who are attached at a certain age. Finding a common language with people we learn all our lives, and the relationship between the sexes is no exception. And because it is worth first to discuss what kind of dating and communication options are doomed to failure in advance, and which will be very effective.

Do not!!!

Once the poet said that the ministry of the Musesfuss does not tolerate. It also does not tolerate fussing in love or just being interested in a person. And therefore, the rules of communication with girls include advice: do not try to get acquainted in a hurry, on the run, in a hurry. After all, if a girl is in a hurry, she simply has no time to look at you, listen to your speeches and appreciate them. Her pretty head can be busy at this moment with any thoughts, but you obviously have no place there. And instead of the expected interest in your person, you run the risk of running into either coldness or detachment, or even rudeness.

Therefore, if communication with the girl of your dreamsreally interests you - please be patient and wait for the moment when she will walk down the street, slowly, and even better - bored. Here it is, as they say, yours, only manage to be interested!

Another “do not” is about obsession.Seeing that the girl is walking alone, pay attention to her walk, to the expression on her face. It is possible that the lady is not in the spirit. And instead of the expected sweet flirting, communicating with a girl in such a state would cause the opposite effect. Coming up, ask if she needs help. Try to sympathize with sympathetic tone, but do not replay. By her reaction, you will understand whether you hit the bull's eye or you should politely say goodbye and dissolve in the crowd for a while - until the next meeting.

Remember the proverb: "on the clothes stretch the legs"?Alas, but it also applies to romantic dreams and their realization. It is possible that the girl, if she is pretty, intelligent and uncomplexed, and even from a wealthy family, already has a whole crowd of fans. She is presented with chic bouquets, rolled on cool “wheelbarrows”, pampered with expensive cosmetics and tickets to private screenings of films. And don't let her nose up and behave naturally - think whether you are able to compete with her constant environment? After all, serious communication with the girl assumes that you will be introduced to the circle of her constant acquaintances. Will you feel yourself on that plate when you have to take the subway to a party, and when you collect money to go to a restaurant in a clubhouse, you simply don’t have the right amount? How is Zoshchenko in "Aristocrat"? "Who without money, those with ladies do not go ...". Sadly, of course - but it is better, perhaps, not to take risks, not to hurt your feelings.

And one more important point.Before you go to meet and start a conversation, think about what to communicate with the girl. Improvisation is good when it is carefully prepared. Remember which books you have read in recent months, which films you watched, and which hobbies you can tell about.

Show your politeness and good manners.Respectful "you" in this situation will be a strong bridge to the near good "you". And in any case, do not use obscene expressions and "verbal garbage" - all sorts of "kitty", "crumbs", "baby", etc. Girls even in the 18th century, even in the 21st - still very Well, I really want romance and really beautiful relationships.

Put yourself in order before going out into the "light".Greasy hair and a cigarette stuck to her lips, wrinkled clothes and unpeeled shoes will push any girl away from you, even if you are seven spans in your forehead and can broadcast absolutely everything about everything 24 hours a day.

So how should it be?

You have to be yourself. Show the best in you, and fight the bad. And then luck on the love front will be with you!