Many couples decide to have a wedding afterweddings Sometimes these two dates are very different in time. Moreover, believers often invite guests to a wedding in a church, and not to a civil registration. Of course, it is good when the wedding after the wedding takes place on the same or the second day, but this is not always possible. On some days, the church is not crowned, in addition, in the posts also have to postpone this ceremony. A marriage must be concluded, for example, in connection with the pregnancy of the bride.
Often people want to witness lovebefore God after many years lived in a secularly registered marriage. Some believe that it will help them to be together in eternity. In fact, if both spouses go to heaven, they will meet there. And in hell, all alone, so the wedding will not help. The Bible says that there are no spouses in heaven, so remarriage after widowhood is not treason. So the wedding is done for the present life, and the rest must be left to the will of God.
The wedding ceremony itself is extremely beautiful, for himselected special chants that have a deep meaning. Every ceremonial act of a priest is important. There are also many beliefs associated with the wedding ceremony, but Orthodox priests are advised not to pay attention to them. Indeed, in our time it is not so important who will be the head of the family (and most superstitions are connected with this), decisions in the family are both, and superstition according to church rules is a sin. The main thing is to believe in your love and work on relationships, and then love after the wedding will only get stronger.
Часто спрашивают, грешно ли влечение мужчины и women. In itself, it is natural and normal, and no need to try to attribute sin and sin to love and marriage. Anyone who says that responsible relationships are unclean is subject to anathema, so do not listen to the tales of sectarians and apostates. But the physical attraction to the opposite sex must be considered as something subordinate. It's one thing if the dog helps his master on the hunt, another thing if he eats on the table dishes for the owners. Therefore, it is necessary that physical attraction knew their place.
In Russia, the wedding after the wedding - the rule, becausethat crowned only after the official registration of marriage. In the sacrament of the wedding of the spouses combine together, they begin to form a single flesh and a single spirit. Therefore, a divorce is just as painful and abnormal as a tear of flesh. The only undoubted reason for a divorce is adultery, because the one who has changed the spouse has already broken the bonds of marriage.
Parental blessing at the wedding - veryancient and majestic tradition. It was not obligatory even in the old days; young people could marry against the will of their parents, but it is so good to enlist the support of important people in our lives. How to give and receive blessings correctly? The young kneel before their parents, and they baptize each one in turn, uttering the words of blessing, after which the young people kiss the hands of their parents. Words of blessing are not something fixed and obligatory; every parents bless as they see fit. Some simply say: “Advice to you and love”, others want happiness and many children, and still others give advice based on life experience. There are no hard and fast rules, just ask your parents to say what is in their heart and what seems to them the most important.
You may have been married for many years, but stillnot married. Wedding after the wedding can be arranged after many years. It is never too late to do this, especially as a registered marriage is fully recognized by the church and not a single normal father will tell you that you live in sin. If you are told this, you can safely complain. The social concept of the Orthodox Church unequivocally prescribes the respect of the church for a registered marriage. However, married couples together easier, because their marriage protect the heavenly forces. So this is more than a beautiful ceremony.
