A wedding is the day of the creation of a new social unit- families, as well as the union of two genera. Have you always wanted to have many relatives? Your dream has come true, because from the moment of entering into marriage the number of relatives is doubled. How are all the new relatives called, who does the father of the wife have to the husband's father?
Parents of spouses in relation to children
Each of us knows that a young wife shouldto call the parents of her husband a father-in-law. Accordingly, the mother of the spouse is the mother-in-law, and the father is the father-in-law. The husband calls his mother's mother a mother-in-law, and father - father-in-law. And who is the father of the wife to the husband's father, is there a separate term for determining this degree of kinship? Today, complex definitions of relatives "by marriage" are rarely used in everyday life. Agree, not so often hear the words "brother-in-law" or "daughter-in-law". Therefore, people are often confused, and many believe that the father of the wife is the father of the father's father. But this is an incorrect definition. Call this word the father of the wife can only her husband, who, in turn, in relation to his father-in-law and mother-in-law is the son-in-law.
Correct definition of kinship
In fact, the father of the wife to her husband's fathermatchmaker. There is also a female version of this definition - "svya". This term is used to determine mother-in-law and mother-in-law with respect to each other. Where did the word "matchmaker" come from? There is no exact answer to this question, experts advance different versions. However, somehow it was not, definitely, that the word itself is kind and pleasant. Popular in proverbs and rhymes is the "brother-matchmaker" rhyme. But in fact, in the old days they believed that marrying children means to be related to their parents.
Who is the father of the husband to the father of the wife?
The definitions of "matchmaker" and "svya" are universal.They can be used to refer to the parents of the wife and husband (in relation to the mother and father of the second spouse, respectively). It is a mistake to think that the husband's father is the father of the wife. "Kum" and "kuma" are the appeal of the child's godparents to biological ones. Remember once and for all the correct definition of the parents of the spouses in relation to each other. This is exactly the "matchmaker" and "svia". There is another way of determining the father or mother of her husband's daughter (or his son's wife). Speaking of a matchmaker or a soviet in the third person, it is appropriate to say: "My mother's mother-in-law ..." or "My father-in-law ...". In some situations, this option of denoting relatives in a conversation is more convenient, for example, if there are several children and all of them are married. In this case, without going into the explanation about which the test is at issue, you can briefly say: "This is the father-in-law / father-in-law (the name of the child)." You can also talk about your mother-in-law or mother-in-law, refusing to use the word "svya".
Swat and svya - new relatives of a young family
Relations between the relatives of the newlyweds arevery different. But always it is worth trying to adjust and make them closer. What difference does it make who the father of the wife is to the father of the husband and how correctly to call this relationship? After all, we are talking, as a rule, about two men of about the same age, representatives of the same generation. And even if the social status and outlook differ, it is not difficult to find common interests and topics for conversations. The test and the father-in-law can be interesting together, it is enough to organize a general trip for fishing or hunting, a picnic or to find an alternative occupation. Immediately after acquaintance of the relatives, the newlyweds should help their parents in every way to establish relationships. And if contact is established, you will really have a big and friendly family. Often, relatives who are not related by blood, become even closer to each other than brothers and sisters who grew up together. And indeed, it is worth turning to ancient wisdom and remembering that the wedding of children is an occasion to become related to their parents.
