Современный ритм жизни и особенности поведения people began to differ sharply from what people used to see for a long time. On the territory of the post-Soviet space, this difference is felt especially sharply. Nowadays it is not often possible to meet gallantry on the part of a man. Is this quality out of fashion or is it still relevant?
Why show gallantry?
First of all, it is worth saying whatthis concept. Gallantry originates from the Middle Ages when it came to the knightly code of honor. This word, which has come down to us, in French means "refined politeness." Is it often possible to meet the manifestation of this quality?
Хотя галантность часто свидетельствует о хорошем education in the modern society, some men enjoy such an attitude to the opposite sex is not of the principles of honor. For many representatives of the stronger sex to act gallantly is to do something with the purpose of making an impression, to seduce a woman.
However, there are those who understand that to behave inthe society of the weaker sex is gallant - it is a sign of their own dignity, good manners and nothing more. Unfortunately, the less often this quality manifested with the correct promise, the more often it is treated as flirtation and inappropriate attention. What does gallantry look like?
What is this quality
In a society where women sometimes want to bea more independent, gallant person is not always the one she expects to see. This is an excellent quality, passing over time from the life of society, characterized by simple actions. For example, when a woman comes down the stairs, she should give a hand. Gallantry is manifested in the fact that the man helps his companion to put on a coat, skips ahead, opens the door in front of her, and pushes a chair when she is about to sit down.
Такие простые действия, которые были нормой для An educated society today can be interpreted not as a politeness, but as signs of attention to a person of the opposite sex. That is why this behavior is characteristic of young people who care for a girl. This means that the manifestation of gallantry towards married women cannot always be correctly regarded by the people around them.
To act gallantly is not to be onlypolite to handle. Sometimes this quality manifests itself in relation to a woman even before the need for any actions. For example, when meeting a gallant man must show his respect by saying the phrase "Pleased to meet you" or "Nice to meet you".
Also a manifestation of gallantry is the skillconduct the conversation correctly. In the company of a gentleman, a woman may feel uncomfortable, so you should avoid those who are absolutely not familiar to her. Difficulties may arise with this, because most of the “male” conversations are uninteresting to the representatives of the weaker sex. However, behaving naturally, a man remains gallant if he starts talking about what is familiar to his companion.
In family
Although gallantry is a quality that oftenis used by a man to achieve certain goals, for example, to impress a woman or to gain her trust, it should be used not only in certain situations, to solve the tasks set. Family psychologists unanimously claim that good manners testify to the true respect of a spouse for his chosen one. People who have been married for a long time no longer need to impress each other, let alone win. But the manifestation of gallantry will make the relationship of the spouses stronger.
The reason gallantry was not sofrequent occurrence, became not only bad manhood of men, but also the desire of women to become more independent. Many representatives of the weaker sex regarded signs of appropriate attention from the side of gentlemen as evidence of condescension shown to weak and helpless individuals.
The influence of gallant attitude
The manifestation of noble qualities positivelyaffects people. If a man acts gallantly - this gives him the opportunity to feel himself a real protector, a strong personality. A woman's manifestation in relation to her of this quality makes her even more feminine and attractive. A gallant man is one whom every woman wants to meet. But even if this quality is shown by a friend or a completely stranger, such an attitude still reminds the lady of her uniqueness and warms the soul.
Whatever the mindset of modern man,some men will still show gallantry. Such an attitude towards women is inherent in the representatives of the stronger sex in the genes. Nothing displaces from the man’s subconscious mind that he is a strong personality and will always take the blow.
