Everyone knows the saying:"As you call the ship, so it will float." And this is not a common expression, but centuries-old observations and experience of our great-grandfathers. The same applies to children. From what name will be given to the kid, much depends on his life. In this article I want to consider 3 names, which can not be called children, and also tell how to choose the right name for your child.
About interdictions
First of all I want to say thatToday, the care of choosing a name for one's own child lies solely with the parents. In the domestic legislation there are no prohibitions. And so the relatives of the newborn can choose even those names that are unusual for hearing around. Moreover, today parents are trying to find the most unusual and unusual name for their child, thus wanting an interesting and extraordinary destiny for their child. But if the legislation does not contain any prohibitions on this account, the church has its own opinion on this matter.
Prohibition 1. Divine Names
Considering 3 names that can not be calledchildren, first of all I want to say that children are not recommended to be called divine names. And this applies not only to the Muslim religion, where it is strictly prohibited, but also the Orthodox church canons. So, father never calls a baby whose name is Jesus or God. This is considered the highest blasphemy. After all, it is unlikely that a child will be able to repeat the fate of the great teacher and prophet Jesus Christ. In addition, no one knows who this baby will be in the future. In childhood, it can be a small schoolboy, but at an older age and generally a criminal element.
Prohibition 2. The fiendish names
We further define 3 names that can not be calledchildren. So, the clergymen will also never surround the baby, whose name is Demon, Lucifer, Devil, etc. After all, the name already outlines the way of crumbs in this world. And in this case the pious and quiet life of the child just does not shine.
Prohibition 3. Names of negative coloring
Choose three more names that can not be calledchildren. What else can be attributed to such a list? So, do not call your kids names that are clearly negative. It is unlikely that a good person will grow up from a child whom his parents will call "The Idiot" or "Maniac" (there are such cases!) This list can be continued indefinitely. As for baptism, the father of a child with such a worldly name will give a new, ecclesiastical name, which he chooses at his own discretion.
Close relatives
It should also be said that the choice of a name forthe baby should be based on certain principles. In the people there are many "impossible", which are still better to adhere to, determined with the naming of his child. So, it is not recommended to call your child the name of a close relative (mother, father, sister or brother, grandparents). It is believed that one person with this name will have to die. You can not call your child's father or mother the name of the child because the people say: the child will be disobedient and will not find a common language with his native namesake. And the next moment why do not recommend this: grandmothers and traditional healers say that if two people with the same name live under the same roof, they will have one guardian angel for two. And this is not good.
Other advice
There are several more "impossible", which should be adhered to if there is a choice of a name for the child:
- Girls should be given only female names,for boys - for men. Otherwise, the baby runs the risk of growing man-like, and the guy - weak-willed and fragile. Example: girls should not be called Alexandra, Eugenia, boys should not be given names such as Julius or Valentine.
- Do not call children according to current events in the country. It was fashionable at one time in the Soviet Union. Therefore, many Olympiads appeared, Dazdraperm and Oktyabrin. Names are at least strange.
- You can not call the children names of relatives who died not by their own death or due to serious illnesses. It is believed that the kids "pick" the fate of their ancestors.
- Do not call your kids afterforeign actors, singers, tv shows and other currently known personalities. Not only are these names simply unaccustomed to the ears of others, as they are often simply inconsistent with the middle name and surname (example: Petrova Sher Vladimirovna).
About the meaning of the name: a bit of history
Parents are also very important to know the valueRussian name that they want to call their baby. After all, as has been said above, only this can already be the path to your child. I would like to say a few words about how our ancestors chose the names of their children. The ancient Slavic history will be very interesting and entertaining. At that time there were a lot of names and it was possible to choose the name of your baby by any criteria.
- Babies were often called just in the order of their birth in the same family: Pervusha, Vtorak and Tretyak.
- At that time, children could be called by the names of gods and goddesses - Lada, Yarilo.
- If you wanted a child of a certain fate, you would name him in a special way: Brave will definitely be a protector, and Lyubava will be a beauty.
- Well, the most relevant at that time were double names that could fully characterize a person (Bogdan - given by God, Velimudr - a great and wise man).
Today, some of the names of the old Slavic world are preserved. And, by the way, are still very popular. However, such principles of name selection in the modern world, unfortunately, have been lost.
Naming rules
I would also like to say that the choice of a name for a child may be based on some rules that are best followed.
- The name of the baby should be consonant with the surname and patronymic.
- It is good to choose a child’s name by date of birth. For this it is enough to carry out only certain calculations.
- You also need to remember that every name is somethingyes means Having decided on how you want to name the child, it is best to read the characteristics of the chosen name in order to understand whether the child wants a similar fate.
- When choosing a name for your child, you need to think about the most simple things: how others will treat a baby with such a name. After all, the baby can be teased even on this occasion.
About destiny
Scientists have long proved that the name and fate - thesethe two components of a person’s life are tightly tied with one thread. On this occasion, many works have been written and a lot of various statistical data have been collected. So, it is believed that Edik, for example, jokers and joker. And Inna - great housewives and loving wives. However, everyone should also take into account the date of birth of the child, as well as many other factors that affect the fate of a person.
Date of Birth
Numerologists actively advise parents to choosename of the child by date of birth. After all, if you do everything right, you can guarantee your baby an easy destiny and an interesting life. And vice versa. In addition, you can also choose a name and according to the time of year when the baby was born.
- Winter kids. They are already too strict and sullen, so it’s better for them to choose “easy” names. These will be great Alexei, Michael and Nina.
- Spring kids are very difficult to keep in one place, they are restless and always go somewhere. Such kids fit the names of Victor, Elena, Julia.
- Summer guys are often very open-minded, vulnerable. Therefore, they should be given tougher names that will correct their fate. It is good to call such children Matthew, Arkady or Anna.
- Autumn crumbs can suffer frequent changes of character. Often, these are quite passive personalities with the following names: Lyudmila, Natalya, Ivan, Dmitry.
First and middle name
It is also important not only the value of the Russian name, butand the extent to which it is combined and patronymic. And not only in consonance. Here, for example, the name Nikolai is perfectly combined with the patronymic Vladimirovich. However, Nikolai Igorevich will be a rather tough person with whom it will be difficult to come to an agreement. Not very good names as patronymic: Dmitry, Semyon, Konstantin. Excellent - Vladimir, Michael, Peter, Paul.
World practice
The fact that the value of the name and the fate of a person closelyconnected, knows many people in all countries of the world. Particularly scrupulous in this matter residents of developed countries. So, there parents can prohibit calling the child a certain name if it can offend the baby in the future. So, the rating of prohibited names in various countries of our planet:
- New Zealand. There it is forbidden to call babies with names that can simply offend them. Example: Talula, Hot Fruit.
- Italy. The court of this country was forbidden to parentscall the baby name Venerdi, which translates as "Friday." There was also a ban on the female name of Andrea, since it is in this country exclusively male (and can bring confusion into the social life of many citizens).
- AT Sweden Before registering the baby in government, you must obtain permission from the tax authority.
- AT Norway Names that mean curses, illnesses or sexual terms are officially banned.
- AT Malaysia Prohibited are those names that are contrary to religious traditions.
- AT China the police must either approve or ban the name. This body there is endowed with similar authority, because it issues identity cards.
- AT Germany There is a special department that is responsible for the names of children living in a given country. For example, there was a ban in the name of Miatt (the authorities considered that there would be a problem with determining the sex of a person in absentia).
- AT Of Denmark in general there is a special state list of 7,000 names. To deviate from it when choosing the name of the parents can not.
- AT Portugal так и не поняли, что означает имя ребенка Овнис (UFO translation), so it was banned. In general, in this country, before choosing a name, you should familiarize yourself with a special treatise that tells you how to name a baby.
- AT Japan The same child’s name can be made up of 2232 characters allowed (“kanji names”).
