Many girls of different ages suffer andsuffer from their loneliness, come up with all sorts of ways to get rid of this scourge, who attend courses, who are fortune-tellers, but no use. But a very effective method of solving problems has long been known. This refers to the "rites on the cover for marriage." This is not just magic. This is a ritual, worked out and confirmed by many generations of our relatives. Why refuse him? You just need to understand what to do and how it will work. Let's figure it out.
Little about the holiday itself
This date, as they say in Orthodoxy, is notpassing. Pokrov is celebrated on the fourteenth of October. For girls and widows, the day is a landmark, very important. Rites on Pokrov for marriage were passed from mouth to mouth. The old women could whisper to the girl, whose time it was that the groom is not at all, if the mother was not in a hurry to “enlighten” her for some reason. Caring for the happiness of one’s neighbor has always been considered natural in Russia. And the Protection of the Most Holy Theotokos is the very date when any “good” desire can be made. According to legend, praying on this day she herself appeared. And she promised believers to intercede for them before the Lord, to tell Him about their requests and forgiveness. Therefore, the rites for the Intercession for marriage in the church are so popular. Believers know that the Mother of God listens to people especially sensitively on this day.
Old rite in the church
Those who wish to conduct ceremonies on their ownOn the cover for marriage, you must carefully read the recommendations, given the nuances. So, on this day, the girl needed to go to the morning service. Only there is a very important point. Should go early. It was believed that happiness will come to the one that is not lazy, gets up at dawn, does not bask in feather beds until noon. As a rule, the girl had to defend the entire service. This is now necessary to do. And then modern women will drop into the Temple for a moment, put a candle and run about their business. So you can not make yourself happy. You need to come to the beginning, and leave when the service ends. Put a candle for the icon of the Virgin Mary. In the meantime, the festive ceremony lasts, it is necessary to have time to pronounce the conspiracy three times (to myself). He is: “On Pokrov I ask my little head to cover my happiness, health and fate with a happy fate! So be it! Amen! ”Marriage ceremonies were not only performed in the Temple. But the witches said that they needed to go to the service in the morning, to ask the Assistant for help.
Ritual with water
And those who do not believe in the Lord, that cannot beceremonies on Pokrov for marriage conduct? Of course you can. Just in those days, when they were invented, they did not even know about atheists. Other traditions were. If you don’t want to go to the Temple, you don’t need to. Go to the dawn to the lake or river. There dial a little water. Previously, the girls were instructed to make this journey with a wooden bucket. Here you follow this recipe. Today there are no problems with wooden packaging. You can find it. And when you bring your “catch” home, say the following words to him: “They covered the ground with cover, gave it joy. And give me a husband, so that my heart is not cold. Let the young man appear, let him woo. And not simple, but rich - both in money and in soul. Amen! ”As you say this phrase three times, pour a bucket straight from head to toe. Then take off your clothes, let them get wet. It must be saved without erasing. As the matchmakers will come (get acquainted with the gentleman), so you can dress again for at least a few minutes. Here such a nonbeliever is recommended the rite of passage to marriage. Reviews about it are varied, but for the most part positive. Many say that this autumn shower is very invigorating. Others like what happens next. Namely, the process of device privacy.
Rites on Veil for Marriage of the Widow
But for those who have already been married,other rituals are provided. No one says that you cannot get a husband a second time. It’s just worthless to keep girl traditions, you have to come up with your own. People performing rituals on the Pokrov for marriage, reviews for the "followers" leave willingly. From their content it becomes clear which one is more effective than the rest. Here the ladies advise those who want to know happiness again, not to disdain the ceremony with a wedding ring. After all, the widow left it from her first husband. If the memories of him are good, then with the help of a little ring you can try to attract a similar man into your life. It is not recommended to hold it to the ladies whose past does not cause pleasant emotions and analogies. And further. The same ritual can be done for the girls who gave the ring to the boy they liked. But with another decoration, bought independently or received from relatives, nothing will come of it. Please note. The ring should be associated with a man about whom you dream. Although anything can happen.
Rite with a ring
Spend it in the first moments of October 14.You should prepare a glass of spring water and a ring. The ritual should be done in secret, so that no one jinxed it. Yes, and talk about it is not worth it. So it will be more true. At midnight, the ring is immersed in water. You need to say this: “I throw the little ring in the water. Heart of the widow languishes. Give me the fate of such a husband, so that the happiness between us blossoms, that my grief is forgotten. Let the betrothed come soon, lead me under the crown. Told come true, witness to that - water! Amen! ”Do not take out the ring, but tilt the glass directly on your head with the last words of the conspiracy. Then quickly find the decoration and put it on your finger. Spend the whole holiday with him. In the evening, remove and pin. It can be worn again, as you marry.
Rite of passage soon marriage
More vedunyi recommended honey for girlsrefresh in the morning. And for this, they are talking on Pokrov. Here is how it is done. Take a jar of sweet product with you to the Church. As soon as you return, stir it with a silver spoon and say: “Honey is sweet and fragrant. Everyone tastes good. So I am the Lord of a slave (name) to my dear (name, if he already has). I eat honey, I ask you to have a sweet life, a happy fate, a marriage soon. Let the sweet will come, the matter will be settled, the race will continue, the child will be born! May our life be sweet, like honey. Amen! ”It is necessary to eat a delicacy every morning, with the same spoon. And with friends, also unsettled, you can share. Grooms for all enough!
Ritual for a specific "candidate"
In Pokrov can not only unfamiliar suitorsto invite. It is possible and quite real slightly push to decisiveness. What else is a weak girl if he “slows down” himself? To do this, on this holiday, you must purchase a new broom and dustpan. Define them until the evening in the hallway. And how everyone will fall asleep, but before midnight, sweep the whole apartment from the windows to the entrance doors, saying: “I entice, I attract the Lord slave (name) to my chambers. So that he did not stand, did not break his head, but ran from his yard to mine, so that he would carry happiness with him. So that the wedding would be nice, but I wanted the kids to be brave and able. So that life was friendly, the Lord needed. Happily rich, all around rado. Amen! ”Attributes (scoop and broom) put in a secret place. They can not touch until the wedding. And then take care, do not use. They will be the mascot of your family.
Ritual with a tree
Многим девушкам больше нравятся обряды, которые in nature spend. On this day, it is also recommended to take a walk. And take a scarlet scarf (kerchief) especially for magical acts. You need to go straight to the tree, which should be selected in advance. Most often, the girls looked after themselves birch. Her trunk is tied with a scarf with these words: “In the forest, every beast has a pair. Every bird has a nest. So I need a girl (name). Let the cute friend come to the door. Let loves, dove, joy gives yes and the crown leads! Amen! ”Now you need to treat outsiders with the fruits of your labor. That is, the girls were supposed to cook pies, for example, and give them to those who will walk past the yard. The day is suitable, festive. So now it is recommended to come. If you want to simplify, then buy a treat in the store. Although to attract happiness, it is better not to be lazy and do cooking.
How to conduct ceremonies?
It is important not only and not so much to comply"Sequence" of operations, the words are correct to say, and tune in accordingly. This means that the Mother of God will help faster to the girl who does not put forward demands, but rather hopes for a miracle. The one that looks upon the world with love possesses kindness. Tale of "Frost" remember? There is not everything is fiction. Much of the folk legends taken. Therefore, before the ritual it is necessary to tune in optimistically. Everything necessarily turns out for one who believes in success. And if you begin to do and criticize yourself and the rite mentally, then do not wait for the groom or happiness. As you make, so it turns out! Remember this.
