Children are happiness for loving parents, becauseonly they are the most important value in the lives of many people. But how often do tears come to my eyes, and then weep sobbing! The reason for crying a child depends on his age. Accordingly, we need different approaches and ways to calm the baby.
How to calm the newborn
The cry of a newborn expresses any requirement of a child, because he has not yet learned to formulate his desires differently.
Parents eventually begin to understand theirbaby by the nature of crying, because it can be caused by pain in the tummy, colic, the desire to eat or sleep, inconvenience occupied position or soiled diaper. It is also known that the baby is used to wiggle inside the mother. Being in the womb, he felt protected when he heard the steady noise and beat of his mother's heart. Therefore, in order to calm the newborn crying children, it is worthwhile to include quiet, quiet music or some household appliances. The sound of a working vacuum cleaner or washing machine can distract the baby, and tight swaddling (only in the hands area) will save him from unnecessary waving and possible injuries. Instinctively, parents begin to rock the baby, pull him close, and this is very correct. Close contact is necessary for a child of any age to feel cared for. It also helps breastfeeding or dummy, which distracts the baby from the cause of anxiety. But if you suspect that a newborn is worried about colic, you should consult a doctor and, possibly, give the child the prescribed medication.
How to reassure an older child
When kids start talking and activelygesturing, it becomes much easier for parents to understand their child. But even at that age, crying is unavoidable. The main thing is to determine the cause of the disorder of crying children, and then act.
It happens that the child is hurt or hurt, he fell,hit, scared, or hurt yourself. In this case, be sure to come to his aid, regret, hug, pat on the head and say consoling words. But there are cases when a baby cries because of whims, he wants to get what he wants, some thing that parents do not allow to take, cannot buy, etc. What if the child cries therefore? In no case do not go with him on the occasion, do not give sweets and sweets, do not indulge. You need to try to calm down yourself, and then divert his attention to something else. You can do something unexpected for him, for example, put him in a warm bath. In the extreme case, when nothing helps, you can simply leave the baby alone with him, he will hesitate enough, and then quietly start playing, because children will not cry for a long time when no one is looking or reacting to them.
How to teach crying children to solve conflicts
When the kid starts going to kindergarten, hegets into the team, learns to play with other children, change toys, help others. However, it often happens that children need the same machine, they do not want to share, as a result - the child cries in the kindergarten. In this case, the teacher, who has experience, will help the children to get out of the conflict situation, will offer solutions. After all, a child who does not have a brother or sister will not learn this at home alone. The most important thing for parents of crying children is to try to be calm and balanced during a child’s hysteria, then this condition will be transmitted to the children.
