When a child appears in a family, the relationship betweenhusband and wife are undergoing amazing transformations. Now they are becoming a dad and a mom, who has a huge responsibility for the tiny creature. How their child will grow up, whether he will be successful and prosperous in life - every parent asks them. Meanwhile, it is from the parents and the child-parent relationship that was built, how the relationship with the outside world will develop.
Child psychology is such that small childrentake as a standard the behavior of adults around him. The first role models are parents. And children, the psychology of the relationship of which is just beginning to form, are trying to imitate adults in everything. This is manifested in role-playing games of children and in the relations of children with peers. Therefore, it is extremely important to show your sons and daughters the right relationship between dad and mom, which will be the starting point for the grown-up child to fully realize himself in life.
The overriding principle that must seeA child is a manifestation of sincere love and care for each other. The little one who will watch mom's and dad's quivering and good relations day after day will be happy himself. Moreover, the model of manifestations of tenderness and love will be further applied by the baby. Therefore, child-parent relationships should be based on love.
A child who feels loved by hisparents, less prone to depression, he is not in a stressful state in case of danger to him. He is confident that mom and dad will save him, help him overcome all difficulties. The child begins to feel confident. But a confident baby is capable of much.
In addition, parent-child relationships in the familymust learn to care about each other and mutual respect. Caring for others should be taught from a very young age, then, having grown up, a son or daughter will not become selfish consumers, which parents could only accustom themselves to being pampered and able to demand all sorts of benefits without giving anything in return. Accustomed to caring for others, the child will be able to fully realize himself later as a loving caring husband, father, wife or mother. It is a mistaken belief that the boy does not need displays of tenderness, because he is a future man. This is the root of all future problems of an adult, who will not be able to express his feelings and affections, suffering from this himself and causing additional suffering to his second half.
Mutual respect must also be inalienable.enter into parent-child relationships, as it contributes to the full and comprehensive development of the child’s personality. By suppressing his will and desires, without explaining the reasons for the child’s refusal of his requests, parents risk further raising an insecure person who will find it difficult to adapt to the outer life, who will feel unnecessary and unhappy. Before you refuse the baby in any, at first glance, absolutely unacceptable request, think about why such a desire arose. Perhaps the baby will be able to make a strong case and reasonably justify his request.
Relationship between children and parents is a problemeternal. It is not always possible that fathers or mothers manage to understand their children, just as children are not able to assess the situation through the eyes of their parents. However, by accustoming to respecting the opinions of others and paying attention to relatives, mutual understanding between parents and children, nevertheless, can be achieved.
Parents!Feel free to express your love in every way both for each other and in relationships with your own children. A kid loved by dad and mom, in response to anxious feelings for his closest and dearest people, much more often grows into a person who will not experience problems with adaptation in the world outside the family.
