Every ordinary, worldly person is typicalconstantly thinking about something. These are only enlightened yogis, or monks can remain in such a special state (nirvana), when this process completely ceases. Our head is constantly clogged with all sorts of thoughts, and most of them are thoughts about other people. And they can be connected with work, family, relationships, friendship, etc. Not bad, if these thoughts are constructive in nature, and a comparison or analysis of other people's actions and words spurs us toward more effective action in space.
How to stop thinking about people: former beloved
Women are more romantic andemotional. They tend to long store the memory of past relationships, relationships and novels. They can not on the day of parting take and immediately forget about their former lover. As a rule, thoughts about him are still very long in the head of a woman, especially if she was abandoned. Memories usually concern the most touching and romantic dates, traveling together, making love, dinners and other intimate moments. For some time a woman even enjoys them, but then these thoughts can become so intrusive that the pain of parting does not seem to pass. So it will be, if you do not stop this "mental chewing gum" in time.
Another option is to find yourself a good hobbyor a hobby. It is said that this helps perfectly, as all thinking resources are rushed to a new object. Not immediately, of course, but gradually and then finally thoughts about the ex will no longer bother you.
How to stop thinking about people in general?To do this, you must first change a lot in yourself. For example, to begin to appreciate and respect your person, to thank and love yourself only for what you are. These thoughts will lead to a rise in self-esteem and, as a consequence, to the fact that someone else's life, opinion and actions will cease to have authority over you. How to stop thinking about people? Completely get rid of these thoughts is impossible, but they should not be negative and destructive.