Hot temper - a tendency to inadequate, excessive reactions to ordinary stimuli: emotional incontinence, explosive irritability; predisposition to anger.
Hot temper - distraction of the mind for theftof emotions. In a calm state, the mind controls the manifestation of feelings and emotions, and only with temporary insanity, such as a hot temper, do negative destructive emotions flow into the space. Heartbeat increases, blood pressure rises, there is a powerful release of adrenaline. If you do not slow down in time, you can smoothly go into a state of anger in a variety of its manifestations, including the extreme ones - rage and rabies. After pumping out enormous energy from a person, a flash of hot temper throws him into a state of despondency exhausted, devastated, defenseless and gloomy. Hot temper friends are eagerness, quickness, anger, imbalance and irritability.
Losing for a while rationality, a person is practically notcontrols himself, becomes weak-willed, therefore he loses respect in the eyes of others. Hot temper levels the ability to make the right decisions, pushes on rash actions, worsens a person’s well-being, provokes problems, leads to hysteria and ends with a sense of shame.
For hot temper is characteristic instantjumping from a calm state to a very excited, agitated and impulsive. Temperament plays a significant role, it can not be discounted. Hot temper is a person without “brakes”. Any person, hundreds of times a day, has to make a choice, consciously or unconsciously, how to react to this or that situation of life. The right to choose is the greatest gift of fate, the invaluable advantage of a conscious individual. For example, in the tram we were pushed and at the same time rudely commented on the push. A person has a choice of how to react to a situation - to enter into an altercation with a tram boor or to ignore provocation. It takes a split second to think about how to proceed. Hot temper, it is not known for any sins, devoid of the greatest advantage of the individual - choice rights. She, without a second doubt, flashes,sharply raises his voice, tears his vest on himself, actively gesticulates, in a word, he is angry with all his urine. In other words, a hot temper between an event and a reaction to it does not have a “safety valve” in the form of the right of choice. An irritant, unchecked bypassing the filters of consciousness, directly affects the sensitive centers of a person, causing a flash of temper. There are no reasons for short temper, but one reason - the inability and inability to make a choice how to react to the events of life.
Спусковым крючком вспыльчивости может стать любой trifle, but, above all, is anger, fueled by conviction. Without self-control and mental stability, it is easy for a person to “ignite” when confronted with ignorance, not willing to actively listen, constantly interrupting and protesting. Bad mood, stress, overwork, fear and anxiety can be a good springboard for short temper. In other words, any object or the situation of the external world, which is given excessive importance, can become a cause of temper.
Hot temper has many enemiesphilanthropy, kindness, tolerance, understanding and ability to forgive. The antidote to it is benevolence, wisdom and self-control. It is a fast passing emotion, and it needs to be used. It is very important to catch the first instant of temper and not to allow a flame to flare up from the spark. For this person, it is necessary, as a child, to distract from the subject of the conversation and keep in the arsenal of improvised means - peace and reconciliation.
Жизнь вспыльчивого человека безопасной не will call. What kind of security can we talk about if a person does not have “brakes”? A bright sample of temper - the great artist Caravaggio. A man of stormy temperament, rude, courageous and independent. The quick-tempered and unsteady character of the artist served as a pretext for constant clashes with those around him, who often ended in a fight, duel or blow of a sword. For this, he was repeatedly prosecuted and imprisoned. In 1606, Caravaggio in a quarrel that broke out during a ball game, killed his opponent and fled from Rome. Finding himself in Naples, from there he went to Malta in search of work, where, after a year, he was admitted to the Order thanks to the patronage of the grandmaster, whose portrait he wrote. However, for the rude insult of one of the leaders of the Order, Caravaggio was thrown into prison, escaped from her and worked for a while in the cities of Sicily and again in Naples. In the hope of forgiveness of the Pope, he went by sea to Rome. The artist mistakenly arrested by Spanish border guards, robbed by carriers, falls ill with malaria and dies in 1610, thirty-six years old.
