What is friendship?Friendship is one of the forms of interpersonal relationships, when people have similar interests, views on life, and a warm relationship to each other. Sometimes it happens that people of different minds have absolutely different characters, but this is what attracts them to each other. One person can be calm, and another, like a blast wave, but they complement each other and together they are comfortable.
Well, when there are people who will come tohelp at any moment that will share the moments of joy and sorrow, advise, calm and help make the right decision. It is especially good when there is a childhood friendship that accompanies a person practically all his conscious life. When a person grows with you in the same sandbox, runs to your mom to eat pies and knows all your secrets and secrets, as well as fears and failures, but at the same time remains loyal and faithful - this is true happiness. Happiness, that there is a number of such a person who will accept all your negative sides, because he is just a true friend.
Time passes, people grow up, and, it happens, they losecommunication with their comrades, but only real friendship knows no time limits. Only a real childhood friend goes with you around in life. He may not be there every day, but you know that one call - and he will come running.
It is important to be able to keep relationships, so that children'sfriendship has not remained childish, but has grown into an adult. We need to appreciate people who ate not one pood of salt with you, visited different situations, but left them, keeping their dignity and loyalty to you.
I would like to give an example, which shows how a person did not appreciate the relationship and was exchanged for trifles, but at a difficult moment only a childhood friend came to the rescue and substituted his shoulder.
Natalia was friends with Alena from school, they were consideredalmost sisters, so they were close. The school was finished together, and they went to study in one institute, only Natalia to a more prestigious faculty, and Alena to the most ordinary one. At first, everything was as before, but by the end of the third year the girls hardly ever talked. Natalia simply did not find time for a friend and childhood friendship gradually began to come to naught. Alena was very worried, but attempts to talk to Natasha did not lead to anything - the girl claimed that everything is fine, she just does not have time. But Alena saw something that she had not only time for her person.
Yes, Natalia found to herself new friends, with whomspent all free time. Alain secretly hoped that her friend "will see" and everything will return to "his own". Meanwhile, she began working in an architectural bureau, got married and, at the end of the institute, gave birth to a child. Natalia was all running around at parties and studying almost abandoned - she was transferred to a contract form of training.
A year later, Natasha also married and broughtan apartment left over from my grandmother. The spouse registered to herself, since he was from another city. Two years lived well, also a child was born, Natalia worked in a shoe store, her husband - a lawyer. With Alain periodically called up, but no more. But with the girls girls ran to clubs in their spare time.
And then, like a bolt from the blue, Natalia's husbandreports that she does not live here anymore and shows some kind of paper. It turned out that one day he slipped her a document, supposedly to take a loan, which said that she gives her apartment to her husband. My husband beat everything well and Natasha stayed on the street with her baby. When she called her friends at the institute and asked to live until she found a "corner", then everyone had some excuses. None of them entered the position of Natalia and did not come to the rescue. And only Alena, despite the protests of her husband, immediately took her friend to her.
Natalia's husband sold the apartment and disappeared from the city.She still lived somewhere in Alena for half a year, nevertheless children's friendship won. Girls talked a lot and Natalia realized how blind and cruel. Only now she realized who her real friend was.
