Often in books or magical plotsthe word "narrowed" occurs. He is called to make or dream, his name is for him to wash, brush or untie the belt. So, who exactly are the young girls called in love spells, who is this cut off - is this person really meant by the higher powers or a common misconception?
The origin of the word "betrothed"
According to one of the versions, the basis of this word -"narrowing". From Church Slavonic it is translated as "cohabitation", "marriage" or "marriage". "Suzhitie", in turn, is a combination of the ancient prefix "su-" and the Slavic verb "to live."
Taught: the meaning of the word
The roots of the "prized" pagan.They are inextricably linked with such a concept as "fate." In order to better understand the meaning of the word, one must turn to mythology. Most of the peoples meant by fate a certain predetermination of events occurring in a person's life, his actions. It is worth noting that this predestination was incomprehensible. In the minds of the people and the second half was something predetermined by higher powers. The folk literature assures: the married woman is the person with whom marriage is destined. This word is used both in relation to the bride, and in relation to the groom.
Folklore and rituals
From the depths of the centuries, we have heard many sayingsand proverbs about the tutored. The most popular is that it does not go round and the horse. So it was customary to say, believed that the bride and groom were meant for each other. The main idea of the proverb was that it was impossible to leave fate.
The Egyptians and Slavs were real wizards -it is they who own many different ways of determining who is your betrothed. This, for example, is a ritual that unmarried girls spent on Christmas Eve. According to the Slavic fortune-telling, it was necessary to go out into the street at midnight, to ask the first met man his name. It was believed that this name will be worn. This guess is actual today. There are other ways to know where the destiny comes from. Even today the girls throw their shoes out of the windows! By the way in which the toe of a boot or toe is turned, they determine where the groom will appear from.
How not to miss the betrothed?
Psychologists say:the concept of "restricted" is a serious problem for modern women. Even being married, they doubt that the spouse is destined for them, and they continue their search. There is also a downside to this medal - quite often the fair sex members hold the doomed relationship, forgiving the abuz.
Esoterics say - from a meeting with a widow and"karmic marriage" does not go away, no matter how hard you try! An inexplicable attraction will necessarily reduce those who are destined to each other by destiny. After all, even Plato wrote about androgynes. These two-sexed beings were split into two halves, which had to search for the missing part throughout the world!
